My best friend's husband tries to kiss me when we are together (usually have been drinking). He does it when his wife is out of the room and he wants more too. I think he is hot and know he would never tell her. Is it bad if we just kiss?
2006-08-21 07:37:49 · 55 answers · asked by guess who? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's bad! It's your best friend, for cripe's sake! I'd hate to have you for a friend and that gutless dick for a husband.
2006-08-21 07:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by dey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes, yes, and no. It's terrible and disrespectful of you both to even engage in any form of cheating or intimacy with your best friend's husband.
I am not surprise he will keep it a secret, he knows where his bread is buttered while looking at your biscuits.
Don't fool your mind into thinking it's all a kiss.
If you think he's hot, I say you cool yourself off but not with him.
How would you feel if you stepped out of the room and your husband and your best friend was sneaking a kiss.
A kiss can lead to bigger problems if you decide to go all the way while drinking.
I don't buy the excuse, blame it on the alcohol because you think he's hot or is the liquor clouding your judgment.
Are you the best she can do as a best friend .
2006-08-21 07:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have respect 4 ur self and some dignity. He is ur best friend's husband of course it is bad if u kiss. U will feel guilty and will want 2 tell ur friend that u kissed her husband ur relationship with her will not be the same. Is it very much worth losing ur relationship with her for just a kiss with her husband? Think about it. Maybe in the future u will find some one better then him.
2006-08-21 07:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is terrible if you just kiss and the reason it is so bad is because this your best friend and her husband not her boyfriend either way its bad this means your not really her friend you should tell her and find someone for your self i you are her real friend that's what you should do if you dint care kiss him and do whatever else !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 07:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its bad very bad.
If she comes in and sees your two kissing shes gonna beat your ***.
Would you want your husband kissing your best friend.
Your not a very good friend if you do it, and she needs to get her man away from you.
Women like you are what causes divorce.
Do you want to be known as the homewreckin HO?
Find your own man and get away from hers.
2006-08-21 07:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a bad thing. Y ou are not a good friend what so ever if you go along. The next time he does it. You should knee him in the balls or punch him so therefore he can till his wife on why he got his butt kicked by a girl.
2006-08-21 07:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by kitty kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just a barrel of Bullshi*t. Do You have an ounce of decency in Your cold heartless body? Guess We will see You in the news, at the rate You are going. You will be the one under the sheet, being rolled away. It will certainly be a difficult case to solve, seeing how there will be tons of well intentioned suspects.
You reap what You sow. And Your crop is dead, wilted, dried up, stepped on, and has been burned.................Wake up....
2006-08-24 09:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't! Tell your friend what is going on. I'm pretty sure that your friends feels comfortable walking out the room because she has trust on you, maybe she even considers you her sister!
What about if it was your husband, how would you feel?
2006-08-21 07:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No kisses, BJ's only in the dark, so you can swear you thought it was your own husband when you get caught, lose your best friend and probably your own husband. Do it if you want this outcome.
2006-08-21 07:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! come on!!! she is UR friend...how could U do this 2 her... try not 2 put URself in this situation again...if U R both drinkin...don't stay alone with him....
She is UR friend, don't do that 2 her... and 2 U...
U R gonna regret it so bad if something happens....
plus it could escalate to smthg U really don't want...
2006-08-21 07:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by Celebriel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. This woman is your best friend. Do you cherish your friendship or some kiss that's probably not all that and definitely not worth it.
2006-08-21 07:44:13 · answer #11 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋