I am a 30 sumthing single mom of a 14yr old. I am scared to death of starting all over. Do i tell him ~ how do i tell him. I dont believe in abortion so that is not an option. Any FRIENDLY words of knowledge or advice welcome...
Just for the record i was on the pill and we used condoms everytime ~ go figure!!!
thanx,
freakn out
fwb = friend with benefits...
2006-08-21 07:33:29 · 5 answers · asked by JUST_ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off camly down. Yes, tell him. He might be excited about, but even if he isn't it's his child too. So, tell him over dinner (a nice one). Telling him you're not getting an abortion and that you want the baby. You would like it if he was apart of the baby's life. Then tell your 14yr (doing something he/she likes to do). Tell him/her you need their help, love, and support more than ever. Don't worry I bet you are a great mom and will be a great mom the second time around.
2006-08-21 07:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of that's obtainable to no longer freak him out. i could start up by ability of first acknowledging what the courting has been, and then say properly... there is substantial information and you may desire to appreciate.... i'm pregnant. you're able to recognize his concerns, and understand that's in all probability no longer what he desires to take heed to. with a bit of luck he will react responsibly. attempt to have all conversations approximately it in an exceedingly common, calm be counted, remembering he's listening to this for the 1st time, so its a marvel, an identical marvel it grow to be for you once you first found out you have been.
2016-11-05 07:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not for an abortion, you shall have to face the music sooner or later. Better tell him at an opportune moment !!
2006-08-21 07:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Just_for_fun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First calm down. decide what you are going to do. I agree abortion is not an option. When you have the baby will you put it up for adoption, raise it yourself, or marry the friend with benefits? I think you need to decide what you will do first.
2006-08-21 07:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by stick man 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well these things happen just have to make the best of it after all your 14 wasn't delivered by a stork!
2006-08-21 07:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by numbnuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋