I get turned on when a man talks to me during sex, and is a little agressive. What turns me on the most is when a man whisper stuff in my ear while we're *******. Stuff like " Is it good baby" or " How does it feel. U know things like that and I really get off when a man does **** like that...Is that normal or am I just a freak....LOL
2006-08-21 07:32:49 · 53 answers · asked by mstiffany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you're not a freak in the "weird, strange or abnormal" sense.
Sexual stimulation is at least as much mental as physical. Lots of women and men get off on hearing their partner talk during sex. If you respond back (if you aren't already) it will probably be a turn on for your partner as well.
2006-08-21 07:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young people get hung up on this term "normal." Much human activity is "normal." For someone, somewhere. Sex is a human activity with myriad variations. Some people put ketchup, mustard, and mayo on burgers. Some prefer salsa. Some like Miracle Whip only, some just salt and pepper, some even add the fries. Forget normal. Learn that certain things, such as sex, are private, and, barring some sort of extreme violence, "normal." For you!
2006-08-21 08:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby! it is very normal but also very individual. It is very normal and sometimes expected. Now what you should realize id that some men are very quiet and all they want to do is to get the job done. They are not in this "lubby dubby ting" and so they will Say nothing.
Personally I do not talk during that time because I may call the wrong name.
So what you should do is tell your man what makes you happy.
2006-08-21 07:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of women like to be talked to during sex. Guys generally don't which creates a problem. Women will talk, wanting to get talked to, while guys will only grunt or be quiet, wanting quiet or only grunting in return.
It's not odd to like it and want it, but it may not be so easy for the guy to provide. The whole issue with having only enough blood to run one part at a time causes problems in the speech section of the brain during sex.
2006-08-21 07:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by Magina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of both, which is fine, you are normal, or should I say a normal freak.......
don't trip just let your guy know this, if he is not a nerd or anything, most likely it will turn him on just as well okay.....
2006-08-21 07:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your normal. Guys like that kind of talk during sex as well.
2006-08-21 07:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never taken a survey, but i think it would sake to say that fairly normal. it is a form of sexual communication. to me it is alot more to have some one who is letting u know what they are thinking & feeling.but it not much fun when ur part-ner is the quite type. keep it up & hopefully the other person will sing along so to speak & join u in the chorus of sexual bliss.
2006-08-21 07:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally normal!
don't worry. some people don't like that and some guys may feel uncomfortable doing that at first, but they will get into the swing of things after they see how much it turns you on!
take care!
2006-08-21 07:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by joey322 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes very normal. Sex is usually 80% mental anyway, so any mental stimulation SHOULD make you go into overdrive...I like to read Dr Seuss when I'm having sex. Drives the ladies CRAZY!!!!
2006-08-21 07:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal .. nothing wrong with a little dirty talk during sex.
So, don't worry .. you're not a freak.
2006-08-21 07:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by bluesie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋