Okay brainy, quirky menfolk--what do YOU look for in a woman?

Question

(I asked this question earlier, but didn't get many responses, so I thought I'd try again after more people have woken up. This is IMPORTANT, darn you!)

know what *I* look for in a man: a good personality, good hygeine (haha), intelligence and a wicked, quirky sense of humor. That's about it. But I can't figure out what MEN look for in a WOMAN. I'd like to think that the kind of men I'm interested in are looking for generally the same things, but I'm not sure. So, intelligent, funny men of the world: what do you want in a woman? Besides, you know, the obvious. Heh. I've got the physical attributes down pat, it's the mental stuff I'm wondering about these days. I don't NEED a good relationship, but gosh darn do I ever WANT one.

Riiiight. Thank you all SO MUCH for your thoughtful and informative answers. Pfft.;)

Answer 1

only one personality...not one for each mood
a sense of humor that brings forth a laugh or giggle at the absurd
someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously
someone who can stare at the surf and embrace the moment and not feel like they must fill it with talk, talk, talk
someone who has a dream, goals and a life and complements yours....not overwhelms it or derails it...
someone who you can't imagine not seeing every day for the rest of your life

Answer 2

I don't speak on behalf, but, myself I prefer a woman with a great sense of humor, and not be in her menapause years(that is a put-down 4me). I avoid women who just got off a long relationship. I don't mind kids I think there great, they difine a woman. If the father or fathers are still in the picture, I wont waste my time. I choose carefully, so I won't get hurt, much less waste time.

Answer 3

I'm intelligent , & quirky, but not very funny. Anyway,brain's rule, . I like a girl who believes in romance and Values love more than anything. Physically ,I like muscles on a girl, and I have a thing for noses, big or unusual. Above all else she must believe in love, and be smart. (i think those two things go hand in hand)

Answer 4

1.) Humor and personality

2.) Self confidence with the awareness of when she is being overbearing.

3.) Self assurred...knows what she wants, knows how to get it without making everybody think she is a b

4.) Public displays of affection

5.) Nurturing

6.) Good kisser

7.) Open to new experiences

Answer 5

Brains are the ultimate attraction. I enjoy some one I can talk to about any subject and they can engage me with there thoughts and opinions. A free thinking women who reads the paper and watches the news and can solve all of my problems for me when I am to tired to think for myself. An open minded person who thinks about things before actually forming an unchangeable opinion, and large breasts.

Answer 6

Read ur profile and 360 and u seem like a kool chick and I think your trying to hard to find them. I say have fun with ur friends and stick to your hobbies and venture out more and if u r still in Tenn move to Memphis but, since u wanna know anyway.

I want a woman who understands when i wanna go out with my friends and stay out late I dont get nagged on even if we were married or just living together one who can cook really well not just take out or microwave food. One who likes my kind of music one who doesnt make me watch too many girly movies unless its porn and speaking of triple XXX dont be a prude or atleast let me keep it. One who likes food fights with whip cream and sex on the kitchen table, one who can drink beer/liqour and can have fun when shes drunk and not a pyscho killer who get jealous and wants to fight other women unless its oil wrestling.


Theres more but u have to ask nicely
My Qualifications
Veteran/OIF
traveled to 7 countries
crossed equator twice
travled to 10 states
visted every major city in Texas
Divorced 1kid(lives w/his mother)
Dated in all these places

Answer 7

1.) intelligence (i do want to talk every now and then ya know)
2.) beautiful eyes (i'm a sucker for big beautiful eyes)
3.) beautiful smile (ditto)
4.) a love of laughing (i'm a bit of a cut up sometimes)
5.) sense of adventure (i like to try new things)
6.) she must be sensual (i crave affection)
7.) nice legs (i'm a leg man... what can i say?)

ok ok ok. i hate lists. look it is the whole package. when you have it and its working you can't be ignored and you will never be forgotten.

Answer 8

someone spontaneous ready to go bungy jumping one minute and sit on the couch the next to watch a movie together. someone not bossy but contributes in decisions, someone with only two eyes(cyclops excluded) and nothing growing out the top of her head. Someone who doesnt mind the small things, but can see the beauty in a sunset Someone that doesnt mind if i fish. someone i can laugh with. someone that things that someone thats a little goofy is a little nice.

Answer 9

I used this answer before and it has had a positive response:

A chef in the kitchen, a barmaid in the den, a lady on the street and a nympho in the bedroom.

Answer 10

I don't care about none of that stuff because if she don't put out on the first date or before she is not worth the time