cause he know where i go on differnt days and the times
i live in the uk and we have to sign on for our money
cause iam not working at the minute i lefted him before but i went back because i was stupid
dont know wot to do
he rang me i know i need to change my number someone please help thanks
he goes away an the 30 of this month
2006-08-21 07:02:53 · 31 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he does not work
2006-08-21 07:03:16 · update #1
its more easy to say run i need some great ides
2006-08-21 07:09:20 · update #2
my boyfriend is goint to a place in the uk called wigan near manchester to see his children
he keeps on giving me a guilt trip because he keeps saying are u going to leave again and make me homeless
2006-08-21 07:25:56 · update #3
when you are out... if he does not come with you, start making plans. Should only need to take you a day or so. Instead of going where you "should be", take a detour and use a half hour to plan.
If you need an excuse purposely run over a nail and get the tire fixed.
1) you need to find a safe place to run to. A friends, family, coworker, or best find a shelter for victums.
2) be prepared to leave things behind at least temporarily.
3) have any documentation you need, your drivers liceance, birth certificate, passport ect ready to take with you. If you are going to take the car, you could leave it there.
4) if you can, start hording and hiding paper money. You will need to rely on others for a bit until you can get on your feet. If you work, plan on opening a new bank account.
When you are ready to leave for good. Leave when you are to go somewhere (ie: school, work, ect) and head to your safe place instead. Have your friend or whoever take you to the police dept and fill out a restraining order on him so that he isn't allowed to be near you. Then go and ditch your cell number, or better yet have his number blocked so he CAN'T call you.
where is he going on the 30th?
2006-08-21 07:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by myshira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certain, it truly is a relations abuse, it truly is likewise emotional and actual abuse. you don't want this relationship. i imagine it truly is sweet to call a shelter, call the law enforcement officials and go away him for solid earlier you develop right into a statistic and are lifeless. there are adult men available that repect females and do not hit them and talk right down to them. A relationship is assume to be 2 people being who they are, both getting out of the abode and doing issues mutually, none of which contain the things you've said. Get to a shelter and talk with someone. Dont' stay in this relationship any further. once you're out of it then you will see what you want to work out and also you've gotten the means to do what you favor to do once you favor to do it. do not enable him administration you.
2016-11-05 07:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not really familiar with the services they might have in the uk to help but is there any sort of women's abuse shelters in the uk? if so start there they can help you find a job and a safe living environment. if not go to the police because they will be able to suggest some resources
2006-08-21 07:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to the police. They should protect you. First thing first, if he's abusing you find a safe place. I don't know if the UK has women's shelters, but go stay in one if you need to. Don't tell your friends where you're staying, though you can still go visit them. Next off, get a job and support yourself so he can't claim that you need him. You don't need him, honey. You deserve better than him. Good luck.
2006-08-21 07:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mama23Girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave, go to a shelter, but look around the house for anything of value that you can get money for, if he gives you money for groceries or whatever thats your chance to take the money and go, either way you have to go and there is no right way but to just leave, go to a police station and tell them and they will connect you to other people that can help you out, they have too.
2006-08-21 07:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by brite star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he goes pack your stuff and change your phone number go some place safe like your parents and call the police its 999 tell them and get him out of your life start fresh get a new number a new job good luck
2006-08-21 07:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by spud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have a computer and he lets you alone then. Why don't you check some abuse shelters online (google them) if you have them over there and email someone. You can also look for police online or family and let them know.
2006-08-21 07:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the US we have safe houses where you can go and be safe. Don't you have something like that over there? Do you have a health department or mental health agency someplace you can call? They would know of any resources. I would find it hard to believe if we have them here that you don't have them there.
2006-08-21 07:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find some shelter for abused women. If you can't, see if you can stay with a friend---Oh, and press charges against him. Everytime he hurts you, press charges. Call 911, whatever you have to do. And pray for him and yourself.
Good luck!
2006-08-21 07:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by Christian mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restrainign order and then leave out of town or something without letting him know.. plan this very wisely.. get all your belongings and contact people do whatever you can.. but don't tell too many people where you leave because your man will find out
2006-08-21 07:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋