HELP! HELP! my friend of 10 years is avoid my phone calls.?

Question

I visit my friend Rusheia in Little Rock, ARI left early because things were not going the way I planned?
I called her on several occasions even left messages at her work , but she has not returned my phone calls. I'm to point where I say **** it maybe we were not really friends to begin with. We share every secret, plans, and scheme but not men. Whew! what do you think about this whole situation? and give me your honest answer when answering this question. I pay for my trip, stayed at a hotel even took time off work. If i knew this was going to go down I would of save my money. HELP!

Answer 1

I think if she is really your friend she wouldnt be avoiding you and if she is in some kind of trouble or she dont want to be your friend anymore than she should tell you...I really think that when she does call you back dont start by talking harsh let her explain why she has not been acting like herself lately and tell her how you feel about the whole situation...thats what I would do and if things dont work out between you guys just try to remember all the good times you guys shared with each other AND DONT KEEP CALLING HER REALLY DONT CALL HER LET HER CALL YOU !!!!!

Answer 2

I am not sure what went wrong ot the trip but it sounds like she is really hurt and upset about it. Did you do something that may have hurt her feelings? I think you should find out what is bothering her before you write her friendship off. You were the one who decided to leave early so that may have been the cause of the way she is responding now.

Answer 3

It sound to me as if you really did something to upset her. Or, as you say the friendship is not that close.

Write a letter, tell her how you feel. If she does not respond then at least you know you tried and move on. Be sure you're letter does not have an accusing tone to it.

Answer 4

The first thing I think you need to do is think about what made the stituation bad. If it is your fault write her a letter and apologize. Let her know you tried to do that over the phone and she wouldn't answer.
If it is her fault I would write her a letter telling her what you felt went wrong. I would also let her know how much it is hurting you that she wont answer her phone.

Answer 5

yea i know the type too..you know what leave her alone and keep a journal of all the efforts you made to get ahold of her,,and if and when she calls, pull out that journal and remind your self of how she reacted to you..and tell her you are busy
the point is-she is reacting inappropriately and not responding like an adult
at least you tried..that's more than i can say for her, and she thinks she is holding the power by not responding..she is not

Answer 6

First of all you need to know what happened if anything happened. She might be out of town herself or she was insulted that you stayed at a hotel instead of at her place. Or people change and so do their friends.

Answer 7

In my opinion, stop calling her, she is obviously avoiding you, for whatever reasons, if she wants to talk to you, let her call you...so at this point, don't call her, and move on, enjoy your trip and make it worth..

Answer 8

WHAT SO WHAT U AND SHE WILL GET OVER IT DON'T STRESS YOUR SELF HELL I BET THERE NOT STRESS IF THEY WERE THEY WOULD TELL U ABOUT IT GET A LIFE. JUST KNOW YOUR CLOSEST FRIEND CAN BE THE CRUELEST ONE

Answer 9

mabey shes upset you left abruptly mabey she thinks you are mad at her

Answer 10

becuase she hates you