I was just wandering if it harder with the second child. I mean the pregnancy and the labor. I have a son who will be 3 next month and I think I am ready to have another one, but I worry I'll be to fatigued to be a good mom to my son during the pregnancy. Any advice???
2006-08-21 06:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by mommylee 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It will probably be harder, but don't let that stop you from having another one if you really want one. Long term you'll be happy with your decision. Also, remember that people will want to help you!!
~Sarahybethy
2006-08-21 06:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by sarahbeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't tell you about labor/delivery yet because I'm not quite there yet. I'm 4 1/2 months pregnant with my second child, and I have a 15 month old son. I'm also a full time working mom. The first trimester was very rough...I was so tired. But, I am doing really good now! Have lots of energy, and I feel terrific (not anything like I did the first time around)!! So, it all depends on if you have the support you need to get you through the rougher parts of the pregnancy....I'll let you know how L&D goes!!
2006-08-21 06:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by geminiparody4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the labor and pregnancy is generaly easier..and goes smoother..you will be fatigued, that is a given, but you manage..and it's always nice for your child to have a sibling. I have 3 kids, all 3 years apart, and for me it was perfect. You manage, and do what you have to do..2 children isn't really all that harder than 1, except for maby in the first few months while your adjusting :) good luck..i'm sure things will go great.
2006-08-21 06:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by MyDreams2Be 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My second pregnancy and labor was easier than my first. And it did slow me down a little bit and I couldn't play as much with my first child while I was pregnant. But I think kids do better if they have siblings between 2 and 3 years old, of course that's only my opinion. But I think running after a little one while you are pregnant makes the pregnancy easier and faster because you are distracted. Then your kids will be friends and playmates because they'll be closer in age and have stuff in common!
2006-08-21 06:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by mommyem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The labor was much easier with the second one than the first because I knew what to expect. After though is a totally different story. Holy moley is it a lot of work. With one you can trade off with your husband to get a break. With 2 you are both on all the time. Yikes! It was harder for us to adjust to with our second but in the end it's worth it. I love my little guys and it's so cute to see them play together.
2006-08-21 06:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by cardsbyjeannine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was easier for me the second time. I knew what to expect and I was less scared in the delivery room. I had done the no sleep and diapers thing before, so I was ready to do it, and was confident that I'd do a good job. And after the baby starts to sit up, big brother or sister usually enjoys their little playmate. 1 was hard, 2 was easy. 3 was more difficult that 1.
2006-08-21 06:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be a bit more challenging, but I wouldn't go as far as to say harder. You'll get the hang of it in no time though. With me labor was quicker & easier though & I started showing alot sooner than I did the first time. Just don't be afraid to ask for help anytime you need it.
2006-08-21 06:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by mamabens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh perfect timing! you will be fine. you'd be surprised how understanding a child can be. yes you wil be tired, but just try to relax, take naps when you can. labor isn't garunteed to be easier, but it usually is. personally, i am finding my third pregnancy a hell of alot harder then my first two kids. my oldest is 8 and he's always making sure i don't lift anything, or if i need help getting off the couch. my youngest just wants to lay his head on my belly. watching them understand the whole process is almost as precious as watching a new baby sleep.
2006-08-21 07:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey all mothers are tired! Are you are working mom or stay at home mom? Do you have a supportive spouse who helps out and is your marriage good? I am a mother of two. My 12 year old has an active life with travel soccer and my two year old is a challenge. I keep myself active through exercise and working out and I always take time out for myself. My husband and I continue to be husband and wife not just mommy and daddy. Take care of yourself and your marriage and don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it
2006-08-21 06:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i thinck you will still be a great mother to uoyr son. And that your 2nd pregnancy should not interfear with your relationship with him or how you take care of him.I thinck it will make him closer to the baby because he can be a part of the whole thing.And maybe since it will be your 2nd pregnancy you will know more what to exspect so you can be better prepared.Good luck.
2006-08-21 06:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by mcdanieljoanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋