i am almost 20, and i am married and we have a 2 yr old well, we kind of want another baby, does that sound completely nuts? we both have jobs and we just cant decide!!
2006-08-21 06:31:03 · 9 answers · asked by sammie nicole 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You sound like I did when I decided to have another!! I'm 24, married, and I have a 15 month old son. When his first birthday was approaching, my husband and I talked about another baby. I wanted them to be a little closer in age. So, a week before my son turned one I stopped my birth control (thinking it would take a while for us to conceive). My husband and I conceived on my son's birthday! I'm 4 1/2 months pregnant, and the kids will be 21 months apart. Crazy, maybe. But worth it to me!! I couldn't be happier!
PS We have made the final decision not to have any more children after this one.....2 is the perfect number!!
2006-08-21 06:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by geminiparody4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are just a teenager yourself you are not even 20 year OMG! You won't even be the same person at 25, 25, or 35! Why not take time to enjoy yourself and your marriage first before all the kiddies come along. You have a great big life in front of you. Do you have any other goals besides having children? I am not being insensitive, but I am here to tell you there is so much more out there and you have time. What's the big hurry? You had your first child at 17 ( meaning you conceive around 16?) what are you thinking?
You can't decide? Allow yourself some time to be YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 13:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first daughter when I was 18 and then I had my son,at the age of 21.I think this is the best time for you to have the second kid.Remember - kids prefer brothers and sisters at age close to their own.I have 7 children but all of them have a brother or a sister at age close to theirs.The oldest girl is 15 and the next kid is 12,then 10,then 7,then 5 and twins,age 2.All of them can share everything with the others because they feel like friends.
2006-08-21 13:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness I am almost 20 also and I couldnt imagine have 2 kids or even 1. I really think it depends on if your stable enough to have another child and if you are stable and ready for another one go for it. I know I personally could not handle the responsibility so I must give you props~
2006-08-21 13:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lucid_dreams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More then likely you will have another child anyways. Might as well do it while your young ...so that when your older you can enjoy some freedom and by then you'll have enough saved up to enjoy it..good luck on any decision you make and I for one hope you end up happy.
2006-08-21 13:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by dan and becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound nuts at all. Good luck!!
2006-08-21 13:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jacob's Mommy (Plus One) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think its nuts as long as you both want to can afford it then go for it.only you guys can make that choice.well good luck.
2006-08-21 14:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by GINA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not nuts. if you are stable go for it if not wait
2006-08-21 13:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be fruitful and mulitiply
2006-08-21 14:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by Freeadviceisworthwhatyoupayfor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋