if you men have a tendency to not stick with someone and run off with a new chick sooner or later, why do you bother convincing her to be with you in the first place?
2006-08-21 06:20:59 · 29 answers · asked by iLuv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some guys are like that... try looking a guy who is loyal
as a dog.... marry a butler~
2006-08-21 06:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to answer your question, here goes,
much like women when you go shoe shopping, all types are good until you settle on that one specific pair that you cant live without.
same thing. the difference is, shoes you can throw in the closet when youre done with and pull them out again for later use.
2006-08-21 06:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by ijustcamehere4freefood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest from a guys point of view. sex. im not like that anymore, but i used to be. young guys have a lust thing, they'll say and do anything to get in your pants. also young minded men.
most guys find out they wanna stay with the girl during the dating period but from the begining its usually sex. unless youve known this guy for a while like you went to school with him or something and know how he is, more than likely his intention is sex. also its in the male gene to plant his seed as much as he can, its kind of an instinct thing. just like the female instinct is to choose the most fertile and strong male, not to get all in to statistic or nothin but thats how i feel. hope that helps a little.
2006-08-21 06:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by CATCH 22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have been used like that by a woman. it sucks but don't fret, there is always someone nicer. next time just be up front and ask them what their intentions are. if you feel only like a bit of fun then make sure you say so and keep reminding the person you are seeing of this fact. my point is to have an objective before you start any sort of relationship, and make sure he has one to.
2006-08-21 06:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by SivGiger78 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This may sound like a cynical view. But, maybe the person you convince to be with you isn't everything they thought they'd be.
The girl you thought would make you happy, and make a good girlfriend, isn't what you thought she'd be before you got her.
2006-08-21 06:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't convince her you can't be with her. Maybe it's not her, maybe they're just trying to get away from the girl before you.
You don't know if the persons right till after you get to know them.
2006-08-21 06:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by fortyseven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think its an age thing,as u get older your chances of finding a good one dwindle...so why look for your life partner when your 20 somethin...repeatedly.hold off till your older...im sure some girls i gave up on cuda been awsome at 60..but it like "right girl,wrong time"
2006-08-21 06:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a girl but i could say that not all guys are like that. My brother my dad and my boyfriend are living proofs.
2006-08-21 06:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by ianne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either that guy has changed and is going to stick with this one now or a bit, or just do it for the sex.
2006-08-21 06:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by someoneelse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every chick is different. They are just like different dishes. You gotta taste them all.
2006-08-21 06:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋