It is understood how to approach a girl and how to ask her on a date... date her, be funny, make her like you, blah blah blah...
But then, I can't understand how to get out of this scene from a movie and turn it into a real life and acutally LIVE with the LoVE for a couple of months with a person. How do you do the loving? How do you keep it together so there won't be no break-up? It's challenging cause I've never had a girl b4. Could anyone plz help?
2006-08-21 05:55:17 · 6 answers · asked by brother from QG 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello,
Well. If you understood 'how to approach' her, and well, you dated once, twice, and then u get inside the business.
Passion, did I say? You need to turn that feeling inside the girl towards you.
How to: Well, some try to look 'mysterious' towards a girl. For example, a friend of mine - well, he never speaks towards anybody... I mean, he almost never talks... - SURPRISINGLY - the girls simply love it - he makes them feel that he's like a plasteline, but when they'll really become FRIENDS... :P she wont think like that anymore :):):)
OK, the other way is the - more or less - conventional way:
1. Don't behave like a wuss - cuz girls aren't attracted to wusses.
2. Don't make her feel that 'She's the boss' - that doesnt adding any passion and attraction to your girl...
3. Be Funny - But don't learn jokes like a clown...
Basically, you need to show her that you're very confident in yourself and in your moves, and you also need to charm her (not with gifts and not with wussy behavior)
After she burns inside with that passion and attraction towards you, you can do most likely everything you want with that girl.
...It should work well with one girl for at least 1 month; if you do it the right way - maybe even years...
Dont get disappointed even if she dont want to go with you after the first date, look, maybe you just need some experience, and well, hey, thats what you're getting!!
2006-08-21 08:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Arcady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be a roller coaster ride, exciting, thrilling, breathtaking, and scary all at the same time. If you meet the right person you will know how to make it work. For me and my guy, I have to remind myself that it's not only my opinion that matters, I have to remember what he is thinking or feeling also. You have to be willing to give and share. You have to know what you can get a way with and what you will do just because you love someone. Are you willing to let them choose what you both eat? Where you sleep? Which car you take? If you are willing to let some of the decisions not be your own, that is how love works. It is like a full time job, but if it does seem like a job you wouldn't want to keep, then get out. But if you love it and you absolutely would die to keep it, then it is meant to be and when love is easy.
2006-08-21 13:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by neon_lover1996 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
take your time find what you want and go for it. If you are honest with her and keep communication open then there is always a chance it will work. Love is a work in progress. You don't just fall in love and all things are done. You have to work all the time and show the other person that you care for them. This is not just a one day thing it is a everyday thing. Honest and patience are very good to have. Also compromise is important in a relationship...Good Luck!
2006-08-21 13:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well... I would have to say that being yourself is the bottom line. I have been in a relationship for some time and this relationship is finally the only one that is working out, because we are able to be ourself, have fun. So I guess i am saying find someone you aren't afraid to talk to, or that you aren't shy around, talk with them and get to know before you do any asking out. Once you both are comfortable, give it a shot. Take her out to eat, but make sure even though you are going out now DON't act any different! hope this helped.
2006-08-21 13:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by meangel15 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It all comes naturally with maturity.
You will realize that life is not enjoyable when you believe that everything revolves around you.
At that time , you will start to care about other people more than yourself.
When that transformation takes place , you will have no problem keeping a woman.
2006-08-21 13:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Matty 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Communication is a great factor. One thing you must realize though, is that sometimes in life things happen, whether it is to teach us or just to change us i dont know but if you stay true to her, and not be overbearing and wlasy communicate. things should be on the right track.
2006-08-21 13:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by someoneelse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋