Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 4 months now, we're making out, and he touches me but I don't know what he wants me to do to him, I just let my hand hang over his shoulders, he told me that he wants more from me, but what do I do? I think a blow *job is way too far, so is a handjob, so can you help me? please????
2006-08-21 05:21:22 · 19 answers · asked by Jenni C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why don't you put your hand down in your area with his and help him play with you..i've done that before with my boyfriend and he said he loved the feeling of my hand and fingers around his inside of me
2006-08-21 05:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only do whats comfortable for you. If you get uncomfortable stop. Don't let anybody or even yourself pressure you into something your not comfortable with. If you are comfortable with just touching him then do so. But giving a handjob or BJ is going to far for you then please don't do it. Just explain the situation to him and if he likes/loves you enough he will respect it and just continue to do what you both are doing until you are ready. So just sit down with him and explain why you aren't doing those things and he will understand. Good Luck.
2006-08-21 12:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is a start place kisses all over his chest lick his nipples feel up his jimmy as you are doing everything else. Just make him feel like you want him. You can't just sit there with your hands hanging over his shoulders. You have to touch him rub his back and make him feel wanted.
2006-08-21 12:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him and tell him not in the heat of the moment that you are not sure what he wants...if you are both smart enough you can handle this conversation and get to the point were he says I want this or that. If that is to much for you then just tell him what is on your mind. Don't play games with yourself or him. Keep things honest and things will always be better. The more communication the better.
2006-08-21 12:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a hand job. It sounds like you are young. Prob too young to be giving BJ's. THere is nothing wrong with a hand job. He gets off, and all you have to do is wash yours hands.
2006-08-21 13:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by fireman4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bj or a handjob is totally NOT going too far, now quit being a prude and give the man what he wants!
2006-08-21 12:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
he wants some action = sex, ********, hand job, 69 ...he even told you thats what he wants. If you arent ready to do it then maybe you should break up cause he will def. find it else where
2006-08-21 12:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by i_lovethis_bar03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you want to do, if hes not happy then perhaps you two have conflicting ideas of what you want out of this relationship and you should both go your separate ways.
2006-08-21 12:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a handjob.....http://www.handjobadvice.com/
2006-08-22 05:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by sotin26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.....I don't know how old you are.....but if you need to ask this question you obviously aren't old enough to be havin any kind of sex. I suggest you wait 'til ur older! Trust me, when ur old enough, instincts will come naturally and you will know what to do.
2006-08-21 12:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When ever he starts to touch you guide his hands back to where you want them ...
If he really likes you he wont mind one bit
2006-08-21 12:30:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋