OK!!! I met this really cute guy, who i fell in love with.I've noticed that he likes to flirt around with me, and i kind of do to. I really like him an i wish i could get with him, but i don't know if he likes me back, and i don't want to ask him (you know ask him if he likes me and if he wants to get with me)because i'm very shy.My friends tell me i should really go up to him and start talking to him little by little, but i can't even do that because i'm the kind of shy girl.They also say that he dosen't have a girlfriend and that if i talk to him i could be that one girlfriend,but i'm too shy. I'm scared that he's gonna reject me back.I don't know what to do and i need help? WHAT DO YOU SUGGEST I DO? Ireally like him.
2006-08-21 05:19:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really like him then you better go for it before someone else beat you to the plate. you never know. he could feel the same way you do. but wen it comes to liking people you gotta put that shyness on hold for a minute. you'll never get anywhere being shy. and i feel that you cant be that shy if you can flirt around him. just act yourself around him
2006-08-21 05:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by diedra06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh! Youth! What is so hard about saying Hello! How are you doing? I really like your___________! Can you help me out with this problem? None of the above are going to get you rejected. Ask for help with a school problem. At some point in your life you are going to HAVE to get over the shy bit and actually start communicating with other humans. You might as well start practicing NOW!!!!!!!!! Practice with your friends then when you're ready talk to him. I wouldn't waste too much time, though. After all there are other girls around!
2006-08-21 12:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND CONFUSED. What is it about him that you love? Being cute is not a good reason. You really should have common interests. You said you have not really talked to him because you is shy, only flirted on and off. Are you mistaking flirtation for love? How can you love him if you don't know him? You may have a desire to know him but that's not love. If you want a relationship with him, then you must get over your shyness and fear and communicate with him or forget the idea completely.
2006-08-21 12:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ntrigue1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making the situation too dramatic by saying you love him. You may be attracted to him, but there's no way you're in love with him, well not yet anyway. Also, you're thinking about asking him if he wants to get with you. That's the wrong mentality. You need to be self confidence, meaning you should have faith that it's not just you trying to get with him, but that there are plenty of reasons why he might want to be with you too. Don't go up to him randomly and ask him out. Instead, flirt with him without acting too interested and give him complements (tell him he looks good) and laugh at his jokes. Go to an event with him (whatever you both like to do) and take it from there. That way, you'll be more comfortable with him, and he'll be more comfortable with you.
2006-08-21 12:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by ioncayah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As another shy person I feel your stress! I'm too shy to approach a guy and I've never been the first to admit I like someone. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and, as immature as it may seem, we had our friends hook us up. It was awkward for a few hrs while we got to slowly know each other but things worked out great once we got past our shyness and realized that we liked each other. Good luck!
2006-08-21 12:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him then he is worth fighting your fears of shyness and getting in there for some chit chat.
If he doesn't want anything to do with you then you can move on, if he does then perhaps you guys will make a good couple.
2006-08-21 12:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear of rejection takes u nowhere...if u loose this chance of accepting the fact that u like him,then it could be even very late...
so have faith,that if that guy is the best match for u then he will be urs..every one dreams of having that perfect partner in their life...its not just good lucks or cute personalities thats all in life..
tell him the truth...when u throw away the fear of loosing him then u will automatically get the courage to face him.
best of luck!!!
2006-08-21 12:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by FARHA Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like I told everyone else who asks this question.
Talk to him and be friends with him, till you get to know him a little better and see if there are signs he likes you the ask him out.
2006-08-21 12:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let your shyness ruin your chances. what if u sent him an email or a txt that way u dont have to look at thim when hes answering u. i am shy to and sometimes i ask questions via email or txt message that way u dont need to be right there when he answers. but it seems he likes u 2
2006-08-21 12:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by maple_bud_on 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the hell can you love him when you don't even know him yet, I think you need to grow up and then you will figure out what love is !
2006-08-21 12:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by jdfnv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋