if my man flirts with girls on the internet. He does it all the time and he says it is harmless because it's the internet. What do you think??
2006-08-21 04:47:47 · 50 answers · asked by Kesh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my husband use to do it all the time so i stated doing it too and then he got jealous because i got more responses....well he still did it trying to out do me......lol it was kind of fun neither of us do it now we got bored with it.
2006-08-21 04:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say. He's not hiding it from you. It really is harmless as long as their not in contact with each other beside the internet. I don't know. I guess I would consider it cheating to a point.
2006-08-21 04:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is harmless, whether in person or over the Internet. The key is that it doesn't progress further than that. If it still makes you uncomfortable, discuss it with him again. If he respects your opinion and feelings, he should stop what he's doing.
2006-08-21 04:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say its cheating its harmless flirting, but if he starts to meet these girls or talk to them over the phone, then you have a problem.
2006-08-21 04:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think so. I mean cyber space not many ppl are really being themselves anyway. So who knows if they are all women he is flirting with. Besides to me it is harmless. As long as he is not arranging to meet anyone from off of there and have sex or start seeing each other. That would be the major problem right there.
2006-08-21 04:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could fall under cheating because while with another his mind is wondering on others and such others can cause friction in his relationship.
The Internet is just a easier way to meet people instead of meeting them in church, club, bars,and other public places so yes I feel you can cheat and many do by use of the computer.
Any man who is already in a relationship know better that they can't be flirting with others because it is disrespectful to their mate by doing so.
2006-08-21 04:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how far he takes it with these women. Some of it can be harmless, but here is the test. If he is not willing to let you read the the chat transcripts, then he is probably taking it too far.
2006-08-21 04:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by ryan g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating, but who says it won't lead to that? He shouldn't be flirting if he's committed to you. It's immoral, but then again, he may see it another way cause he has no morals. If it bothers you, tell him, if he doesn't stop, call it quits with him. It's one thing to LOOK at pics, but to chat live with women and flirt with them isn't right! You deserve better than this!
2006-08-21 04:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes flirting with any one else other then you .start looking for the problem because there has got to be one. alot of happy homes have been broken because of the internet. don't let it happen to you.
2006-08-21 04:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by she devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive heard this before it's harmless if a man does it but when his woman lets say does the same he does then they have a cow
2006-08-21 04:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't cheating, but if he does it on the internet, you need to ask yourself, what if it wasn't... If he is happy with you, he should not be flirting with anyone....
2006-08-21 04:55:28 · answer #11 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋