Im way to shy! What should i do?

Question

OK i know this guy and hes fyne!!!!! but im to shy to really talk to him what should i do cause i want to talk to him but i get to nervous?

Answer 1

that's no different than what happens to us guys when we see a girl we want to talk to...we get nervous too... you know what we have to do? Make up confidence that we don't have and just go to it....wait until a PERFECT opportunity to start up a conversation. Like when they're not doing something intensive, and no one else is around them.

Answer 2

Be patient, pick a day when you feel relaxed and reasonably confident and think of a question you can ask him casually. Break the ice by asking him about a recent holiday, mutual friends, perhaps a recent night out you had together etc. Then ask him open ended questions and find something he is passionate about. Asking someone about their hobby will often ensure that they do almost all the talking. Once the ice is broken, you will feel more comfortable around this man.
I'm am terribly shy myself, someone gave me this advice and even if i don't feel very comfortable, i feel that by following it i can talk to almost anyone.

Answer 3

I'm not sure of your age, but I suspect you're probably quite young. The best answer would be not to worry about your shyness...most likely, he's just as nervous as you are, and as you become more familiar with one another, that shyness will decrease. Try just saying "hello", or asking him how he's doing today...odds are, if he's interested, he'll get the hint you're interested, and begin talking to you more.

Answer 4

Write Him A Little Letter

Answer 5

well.. i came over wid the same problem when i had my first crush, i was too shy to open up the conversation, just like you..

i first saw her in the market, and by some how i got to know bout her sketching skills.. n tht was pingo.. !!

i m kinda pathetic in sketching.. and started the conversation like.. "hey i have heard you are good at sketching.."
her natural reply was... "yeah... so ?!@#$#???"
and i get back on her.. i might need your help, n told her an imaginary story bout why i need some sketches... n pingo.. conversation was on.

so if you know anything in which he is good at.. or try to find it out and ask for his help wid tht matter.. (you might b better then him in tht)... tht will break the ice between you two.

Answer 6

Call him. Or get his email then pour your heart out on how you feel about him. Or this meet him in person and just tell him. Try practicing in front of a mirror or with a well trusted friend. Practice makes perfect. good luck girl friend.

Answer 7

Start with hi and open any subject.
u will find that talking to him will be much easier than u thought don't go far from the first conversation . Good luck

Answer 8

1. practice in front of the mirror!
2. say a simple hi to him in the hall every so often! (MAKE SMALL TAKE)
3. "bump" into him "accidentaly"
4. after all that practice have the guts to walk up to him and ask himout!

Answer 9

let loose girl. somehow make get the situation set up so that he approaches you.friend or coworker can help. Or just take some X and get him alone you wont worry about being shy after that. But it is illegal so dont take my advice on that one

Answer 10

Just do it!! You only live once and if you wait too long some other girl will talk to him and you probably won't get another shot if things work out between them.