When me n my bf have intercourse i dont orgasm from it, i do enjoy it though. I need advice on how to achieve orgasm form sex. new positions?
2006-08-21 04:35:24 · 29 answers · asked by Sweetcheeks16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is up to the woman to tell the man what makes her feel good. You should get to know your own body. We men are not mind readers, we can only do what past women liked. But it doesn't mean you are the same. It all comes in time. In my past once I achieved that level with a woman she won't leave me alone. That's what a relationship is getting to know each other so that you become one, the beast with two backs.
2006-08-21 04:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stop being lazy and just rocking back and forth. He needs to lift your bottom up higher and mount on top of you pushing himself straigh down into you. It's harder work, he'll have to be fit and muscular to retain this for even 15 min. It is best when you have had at least a clitoral orgasm first, then you can fully appreciate the deep penetration and gasp in pleasure. That is vaginal orgasm, clitoral is obviously different. Most women don't understand vaginal orgasm and thus think they are missing out. Men are kinda lucky, they feel those two at the same time of orgasm- and usually they ALWAYS get orgasm. Ever been with a man and you stop the sex before they ***? They get so
P!SSED off! Maybe you can do that a few times to show him what it's like NOT to orgasm and ask if he enjoys sex with you? Tell him that's how you feel and that's how IMPORTANT your orgasm is too.
2006-08-21 11:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women orgasm. If you enjoy it that's a start. New positions may not even help you if your the type who doesn't orgasm. Make sure your b/f knows about it and have him explore your body to find out what feels the best for you. It might just be his fault that your not 'getting there'...good luck
2006-08-21 11:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women orgasm much faster/better from clitoral stimulation. Not to be too graphic.....but he needs to get the "hood" or access skin over the clitoris pulled out of the way and then the fun begins! ;)
2006-08-21 11:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Gregg H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex WILL NOT get a woman off. not new positions not anything. there is a little "spot" you have to stimulate it the right way. then you'll know what it's like. i suggust trying to find it yourself (alone) then showing your boyfriend where it's at. trust me I didn't have my first "real" orgasm until after my first child and marriage. you have to look for that little spot, and master it!
2006-08-21 11:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly_lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to concentrate on the pleasure and having an orgasm. If you let your mind wander, you won't get anywhere.
2006-08-21 11:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't orgasm from sex alone. It generally takes clitoral stimulation. In pretty much any position either you can rub yourself, or he can.
2006-08-21 11:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try toys when you are in bed, or tell him EXACTLY what you want. You can also try a lot of foreplay for you. Some women find it hard during intercourse and you may have to ask him to finish you afterwards
2006-08-21 11:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe be a little bit more foreplay and some new positions might do the trick or maybe your boyfriend needs to get into it a little more
2006-08-21 11:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try 4 play that way it gets you a bit more excited before intercourse....
2006-08-21 11:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by PJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋