My ex and I broke up last summer after three months only going out. No sex was had! Stupid break up really, over nothing as such. He still texts me once a week or so and lately a little more. Last Monday he text me to say he was in the local nightclub and was "hoping to bump into me" Im just so confused by this constant contact, i never initiate contact he always texts me first. Think I still have feelings for him, only seen him once since we split. He text me last night and when I just metioned i was at the cinema he said and who is he this guy you saw the film with, he is by no means possesive, i dont know if he is just curious or if still holds a candle for me, help!!
2006-08-21 04:26:51 · 30 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is your x making a fool out of you? You are a woman aren't you? enough said.
2006-08-21 04:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him if he'd like to meet to catch up, just for a casual drink after work or lunch or something. That way it's not the same as a date so it's a bit more casual and relaxed. See how you feel when you meet up, then decide whether you actually do still have feelings for him. If you do, maybe ask him out properly on a date. I have done this with an ex I thought i still had feelings for, but when we met I realised i was looking back with rose tinted glasses and that he was actually a tosser! I didn't see him again after that. This way it will give you "closure"
2006-08-21 04:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by sally r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....i kinda had the same experience.
when i talked to my ex casually like a friend, he went all defensive and said, "so now i'm just like a friend to you?".hmm. i was as confused as you are now.
we did get together a few months later and broke up soon after. hahaha. i think he was just desperate. he couldn't get another girl, so he went to the nearest girl he has.
i'm not sure about your ex though. why don't you just go out with him, talk it out and just ask him point blank if he is still interested in you?
in this kind of situation, only time will tell.
i really wish you well and hope you will get a great guy one day.
2006-08-21 04:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by shopaholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, only you can make a fool of you. Second, it's none of his business. If he wants to ask you out, he should be a man and ask you out. I know he was asking to see if that was your boyfriend and didn't want to get "rejected" if he asked you out. But those are the risks of dignity that a man must take in order to be a suitor. Thirdly, if he does ask you out, be sure that if you do accept, that you have been clear to him and any other men that you are not exclusive at this time with any of them until they ask you point blank to be exclusive or more commonly referred to as "going steady"
2006-08-21 04:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart but be careful. You don't want to miss out on something if it is true. No doubt he still has feelings for you, and you the same. You have given yourselves enough time away to see the good in your relationship now maybe you will have what it takes this time around. good luck!
2006-08-21 04:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by RollMyDice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him...maybe he does still like you. If he does & you still like him then maybe you could try a relationship again if there wasn't anything wrong the first time. You two might've just needed the time apart to think & realize things. On the other hand, If you want him to leave you alone then make it clear that you do.
2006-08-21 04:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by §uper ®ose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy might still hold a candle for you if he is still text's you all the time.Maybe you should go out with some boy you know and see if he get jealous and see what happens.You will never know unless you try and you might get back with him.
2006-08-21 04:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by tracy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should maybe go ahead and see him once more or u will always wonder...just meet for casual lunch and talk it out with him.Depending on how YOU feel after seeing him u can either block him lol or maybe giv it another go.Good luck darlin ,wish u the best:)
2006-08-21 04:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason your ex is your ex. And, the only person making a fool of you is you if you waste any more time communicating with him. Drop him like he's radioactive. There is someone much better waiting for you as soon as you quit waiting for your ex.
2006-08-21 04:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, he likes you-- I dont know if he wants to just makeup that summer of sex you didnt have or he really is pining for you but if you still have feelings and it feels safe --go for it. A Hunter only hunts if the prey is worthy.
2006-08-21 04:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just ignore his texts and get on with going out with others. he hasnt made much of an effort if he does want to go out with you!! hes just leaving you hanging so you dont get the chance to move on!! people like that are selfish and want a bit of everything, so just forget about him and look forward to meeting someone you can understand. good luck .x
2006-08-21 04:42:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋