I just want to see the publics general opinion.
2006-08-21 04:18:53 · 43 answers · asked by RomanianQT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What if the girl is not sure wether the guy likes her back? How can she see if he likes her and ask him out?
2006-08-21 04:33:05 · update #1
I wouldn't say weak, but it would really depend on the guy that you are going up to and asking out. Some guys find it a big relief that they don't have to come up to you themselves and would think it was awesome that you made the first move. But there are some guys that think its too bold of a move and they feel insecure about things after you have gone out for some time, maybe thinking you'll always take control of everything and he won't have a opinion about anything. Now as for it being awkward, you better believe it. If the guy totally shoots you down in front of his friends or the whole school or bar, that is totally embarrassing. So make sure you always have some type of flirtation or feel some mutal interest before going up to him on your own.
2006-08-21 04:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The guy either wants a piece of A$$ or he wants a great friend to grow with through the years. You wanna know how he feels? Flirt. You could either go the friendship route and cordially invite him to an event which may include a dinner, a trip to talk while you handle your errands, or even a party, concert, or movie. The more you keep it simple and sweet the less pressure he will feel whether he likes you or not. By you asking first, makes a man feel weaker, not you. Men like adventure, so you really should let him play cat and mouse. Once he knows you have a crush, he will act different. He may be attracted to the physical aspect of you. Not neccessarily does every man think of just "hitting it" when they are sexually aroused. Some men think they are half way there with a pretty girl with brains. So showing some cleavage, rubbing up close to him, or giving him a sample hug may show a few signs you need to "run with". As long as you know he likes you, then you should be alright. But just being ready to admit your crush will put you in the fast lane for either a yes or no quick. You need to cruise the street first. Being a great friend, will keep his mind thinking of you, especially when other folks play him. Stay patient and good luck.
2006-08-21 05:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by carolinakres 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In today's society it is perfectly ok for a girl to ask a guy out. They are flattered and usually respect the girl for having the confidence in themselves to do it. Asking a guy out does not make a girl appear weak...actually it's the opposite...you come off as being a strong girl. It also wouldn't make the situation awkward unless the guy doesn't really want to go out with you. I would find that out first before asking. Good luck
2006-08-21 04:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women know what they want and it actually shows quite the oppositte if you think about it. I have been asked out several times and the women I went out with were FAR from weak. It takes a weaker individual to sit back and not act on their feelings. Someone who does is much stronger in my opinion. So my final answer is NO.
2006-08-21 04:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by dooder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would make them weak. I think that it would be ok because the guy might be a little shy or else he may not even know that the girl liked him to start with. and sometimes it makes the boy happier because he may not have had an idea on how to ask her out.
2006-08-21 04:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I think it's not awkward or a sign of weakness. I think it shows confidence and self esteem in who you are and what you want. A weak girl in my opinion is a girl that desperately waits and waits for the guy to ask her out when she can very well approach him too.
2006-08-21 04:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy they are asking and the situation. I've been told that most times nowadays when a girl asks a guy out it makes her look easier and guys still like the chase and having to ask themselves sorta thing.
2006-08-21 04:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys want to be asked out, the "weak" thing that word doesn't exist,I'm old school, over 40 OK I prefer a guy to come up to me, it just feels right, for you go for it you sound young, and you could pull this off, go and have the time of your life.
2006-08-21 04:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weak, appealing. Most men don't pursue women who don't show interrest in them. They don't want to waste their time or seem desperate to women who are good prospects.
If the man you're interrested in is insecure about his relationships with women he could be intimidated by a woman who makes the first move. If you've given him a week and he hasn't asked you out you have absolutely nothing to loose. Either too shy to ever get his ducks in a row or he's not interrested.
2006-08-21 04:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it makes the girl appear weak. Actually most guys really like being approached by women.
2006-08-21 04:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋