I have never liked sex and i have never felt honry, It bores me and doesnt entertain me at all, i am 24, have had a few partners but never enjoyed sex. Is there something wrong with me? i just dont know why the big hype about sex it ??
2006-08-21 04:14:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're either dead or you haven't met the right person. Sex isn't just the physical, but it's the emotional part too. Together, it's an amazing thing.
Though if your partner(s) were bad, then that could certainly turn you off to it as well.
So if you haven't found the right person, then keep searching. If you have and you still didn't like it, you might check w/ your doctor in case it's something physical.
2006-08-21 04:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 and I feel for you. I've never liked sex either. The thought of it disgusts me.. um.. only when it involves another person that is. The "exchange of fluids part" is the worst thought for me.
However, I can't say I've never been horny. I've had moments where that feeling is very intense, but you know what my secret is? masturbation. But I'm with you, I feel that sex is overrated, especially something I can do myself anytime I want and I don't have to talk to anyone or argue with anyone. Oh yeah and for all you other people reading this post, don't just assume I'm ugly cause I'm saying this, actually I'm really freaking sexy...
Now I'm not saying I don't enjoy cuddling, I do enjoy close contact with others and strong, supportive relationships...
But since I don't like sex that only pisses people off...lol
NO! nothing is wrong with you! Don't believe the hype
2006-08-21 04:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with u. I feel like that all d time. It is a feeling where u don't want anyone else touching ur body, i get that feeling. But i am trying 2 have a child so i so it. If u don't feel like having sex then don't because u won't enjoy it and u'll bore ur partner. When u fall in live i guess u will enjoy it
2006-08-21 04:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't been with the right person, someone that you really love. Personally, without being in love with the person, it's only an over rated hype. I dated four guys after my divorce, a two of them I slept with, but until I met the love of my life, it was boring, actually with the two I did do it with, it was a one time thing as I had no interest. Now that I am in love, it's amazing. I look forward to our time alone together because there is nothing better than being intimate with the man of my dreams. (I didn't really even care about sex while I was married.)
2006-08-21 04:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by sofballinchic12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it bother you? Is the real question. If you have no interest in sex, that's fine, it's your preference. Obviously it is a deviance and many people will not accept you because of it. However, you should be free to do whatever you want as long as you don't hurt anyone else. I suggest that you remain celibate to avoid hurting another person's feelings and enjoy life. channel your energy into something that you are passionate about.
2006-08-21 04:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like it your not normal - only kidding. Dont make such an issue. Or maybe you dont like having sex with the opposite sex and thats why you dont enjoy it. Believe me when you find the right person sex is the most wonderful thing in the world.
2006-08-21 04:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I just looked at your profile, and saw the question about the eating disorder. You have some issues with your body, and that is probably getting in the way of feeling turned on.
Please take care of yourself NOW and seek counseling. At 24 you have your whole life ahead of you, take charge now and don't wait.
With love from a mom
2006-08-21 04:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you are male or female. There could be physical reasons, if female talk to a gynocologist, male to your doctor. If they rule out health issues. You might have a psycological issue, or even have just not had partners that were adequate at stimulating you. Yes there are people out there who do not know how to stimulate their partner.
2006-08-21 04:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by tbhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up on something that you dont enjoy,dont do it and dont put yourself through the hassle,no sex no STd's no babies!! Has to be an advantage there!
dont know if your a guy or girl but a little DIY goes a long way!
2006-08-21 04:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by lipgloss742000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once admitted it should not bother you. I have known people
who have gone trough their whole life and never tried it, and
there was nothing odd about them! Perhaps you never have
found your mate, and if one day you do find the right person
it will make all the difference.
2006-08-21 04:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋