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2006-08-21 04:10:42 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Have her take the Virgin Determination test, also known as the Get a Love Is For Eternity test.
And if that doesn't work, you might ask the groom, though he might smack you.
2006-08-21 04:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In Asia we have a technique to see if a girl is a virgin on her wedding day. The Mak Andam (someones who prepares the bride) will conduct a ceremony called Cucuk Sanggul, which is placing the golden headdress on the bride hair. Its a superstitious thing . They said that the movements of the gold leaves depict her virgin status. Not sure how it works as my grandma died before passing the knowledge of it to me.
This is just some information I am sharing with you.
2006-08-21 04:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Arzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Don't make a big issue of the small tissue. 2ndly - Are you a virgin? If yes, then what scared you?
If its just a curiosity then its so simple and easy to get it answered :-
Ask her, "What do you think about people engaging in premarital sex"?
Notice her opinion and then ask "have she ever did it?"
Believe me, she would also like to know the same thing about you that whether you are a virgin or not?
I advise you to focus on questions couple should ask each other:- the right question will bridge the hesitation gap and give you a great insight on your lover.
2006-08-21 13:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by viva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real? Why the heck would anyone want to know that. And who is we? It makes no difference in the marriage, that is between the bride and groom.
I think you need some serious counselling!
2006-08-21 08:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by WWJD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are "we" and what business is it of yours? Are you and the "we" virgins? What right do you have to question any female about her sexuality?
And just in case you persist in the barbarianism, there actually isn't any way to tell because not all women have a hymen or it could have been stretched just by inserting a tampon.
Get a life.
2006-08-21 05:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether the hymen is in tact or not isn't going to be the only way to tell--i lost mine to a boys 10 speed bike accident--most virgins will let you know. regardless, the first time with anyone (virgin or not) is awkward and not usually the best it could be because you are making yourself vulneralble to that person which makes most people extremely nervous. sex gets better the more you get to know that person's body language.
2006-08-21 04:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think a stupid like you deserves a virgin. You don't deserve a bride at all infact.
2006-08-22 07:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur marriage is fix and u are geting married soon. There is no way to ask these type of silly question. Faith on your bride and try to live better married life.
Cheers
2006-08-21 19:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sahil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are you may not be a virgin, if your not, love the girl for her good things about her, not the fact that she is a virgin or not. if you fall in love with a lady and she says she a virgin,and you need proof, take her to a Doctor. case closed. :)
2006-08-21 04:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please avoid this. if you think in hie way your life going to be a hell.your marriage is only to lead a happy life with out any suspects and with more love and care. If u ask this kind of sill question then no one will be live you ,no one will respects you.sex is need of body and anytime it may happened when body seeks it.so Avoid think of this Virgin or not
2006-08-22 15:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by mohan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋