We've been dating each other for some years now. Though he has married with children. He does not tell me that he will marry me, rather he show concern, care, & love by
providing for me whenever I request for finical help. He has been requesting that I should sleep with him. I wonder is it wise to do so?
2006-08-21 03:37:27 · 10 answers · asked by nd4good 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only u can decide that. Remember that sex is a powerful connection that can only be enjoyed when 2 people share love. If u feel he loves u then u do as u desire. But think also he has been nice 2 u 4 years now if he only wanted ur body, after one year he would have stopped being nice 2 u, so i guess that it is love. He gets sex from his wife and wouldn't want it from u if he din't feel there is some sort of connection and love he has 4 u.
2006-08-21 03:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as l read your story, remined me of my ex wife. l left my wife for this woman that l met and after 4 years, l feel so silly to have left my wife, cos l had a family and a home, now l do not. To make love to a person will take alot of love as what l have found out, care and concearn comes in diffrent manners and it does not mean money is all. Hence u will have to ask yourself what do u need and want in life cos it will never help if u do not know. Once u understand what u need, trust me your life will be so much better, look at all areas where u wana improve in your life and decide is he the person. DO not be like me cos l regretted my actions.
2006-08-21 15:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by memphisprints 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dun think it is wise to do such a thing. Since your bf is already married with kids and never tell you tt he will married you, I think it is better tt you leave him. In case after dating for sometime he decide he don't want to get involved with you anymore, what are you going to do? So in my opinion I feel tt you should treat yourself better by leaving him coz there are alot of better guys out there who will treasure u more than your current bf and don't ever be a third party to break up a happy family coz others will critize and despise you(Afterall we are still in an asia region). It will be worse if your own family do the same to you.
2006-08-21 14:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up! He is married! Break up with him and get your own guy! I don't care how unhappy he is in his marriage- he should get a divorce first and then start dating, if he's taht bad off. History will tell you most men never leave their families for the other women. It's too painful for the children and expensive.
2006-08-21 03:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No run away as fast as you can. He's being nice to you because he wants to sleep with you, he's telling you that himself. A man will do anything to get in a woman pants including buy her lavish things, and give up money if he thinks that will win you over. He's married so what more can you be to him but a booty call don't put yourself in that boat your'e more than that leave that loser alone.
2006-08-21 03:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl woah. Caution here. You're envolved with a married man and that's off limits territory. You wouldn't want your husband cheating on you like that or if you were him your wife cheating on you with another man. Or take it like this if you were a guy would u want your girl friend cheating on you or if you're a girl wich u are how would u like being cheated on? Now with all that said I think u should end it and end it now. The sooner the better. U don't want his wife to explode on you. It's best to find a single guy your age.
2006-08-21 03:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he currently married? If yes, then you should not because you will only get hurt if he decides to go back to his wife. If he's not married, don't sleep with him still because if he really loves you he should ask to marry you before anything else...
2006-08-21 03:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a psychiatrist for going out with a married man who has children.
2006-08-21 03:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if he loved you he would have got a divorce,please he wants his cake and eat it to,no you should not have sex with him for you dont know who else he is being nice too.once you sleep with him he has you and that will be it.
2006-08-21 03:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by cherry c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you have to ask if he loves you or not...then he does not love you. My wife doesn have to ask anybody that, she knows it. Also this man is married, you are wrong! Please seek GOD first, GOD loves you!
2006-08-21 03:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by blazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋