i need diffrent opinons from some people ok heres the thing: im 17 ok and my boyfriend of 6 yrs has proposed hes everything i ever dreemed of he puts me first we live in a great apartment in soulth st.paul and goto school in minneapolas
for my 16th birthday he bought me a CAR and relly nice one too and i dident even kno we had that kind of money we after finantally stabe and plan on buying a house after highschool so we can goto collage in st.cloud i love him with all my heart and he loves me to peeses even though we had a problem last week though we worked it out with all u guy's help (thanks) weve never fought ever he even closes his eyes when girls walk bye (its sweet i do the same for guys) hes even talked about haveing a baby after collage i just dont kno if my faimly will approve see he is a indaian and im white and my faimly sent my cousin back to france when she married a asian guy i need help from u guys about how to deal with the faimly.
thanks
much aprisated, Kristel
2006-08-21 03:24:39 · 15 answers · asked by Kristel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Go to college first. Marry later when you both have jobs. Arguments about money will eventually kill any relationship no matter how strong.
2006-08-21 03:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Irritable 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm dating a Pakistani!
MY family doesn't approve, and I don't give a damn. I plan on being with him, marrying him, everything! But I advise you to ATLEAST start college and get used to that lifestyle. If you feel that you can handle marriage with college in your life, I say go for it. Marriage isn't JUST about love. You must put every issue into focus and sort it out properly. I say this because if you get married now, then start college and find out you're too stressed and flooded with too much, than there will be a problem. This problem may not only ruin issues concerning your lifestyle, but also your relationship with this guy.
It's obvious you two love eachother and may even be together for years to come, so if you have to wait a few years, i'm sure it will only make your relationship stronger!
Congratulations on the proposal, and I hope the best for both of you. Remember this a suggestion, always do what you feel comfortable doing!
2006-08-24 14:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Education is the best thing that you can do for yourself! After you get a great job and settle down then think about getting married and having babies. You won't have anything if you don't have a great job and you will be fighting just to pay the bills and that's not how to live.
2006-08-25 02:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by tc2hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still a child yourself... marriage is for grown ups.
It would help if your learn how to spell first before even thinking about marriage.
Stay in school. Life is long and there is no rush to get married this young. You will regret it later.
2006-08-21 03:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with this guy for 6 years and he shows you all the love you need,if you really want to marry him,well go for it.Your family has to quit trying to control you,they are your parents and love you but you will all beable to work it out sooner or later,if you both are going to school and are trying I don't see the problem.
2006-08-21 03:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by cherry c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's to good to be true! Buyiing you a car? Living in an apartment? Where is he getting all this money? Doesn't sound normal to be for an 11th grader. Your parents were okay with him buying you a car??? Didn't they question this?
Doesn't sound good to me at all.
2006-08-21 03:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by ????? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think you are TOO young to settle down. I would go to college and then after you have worked on yourself, then you should be ready for some sort of commitment!
2006-08-21 04:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by jessigirl00781 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if your family approves or not. You should marry who you love regardless or their racial background. If he's good to you then there is no reason why your family shouldn't approve. How do they treat him right now that you're living together? Even if they don't approve, they'll probably get over it and besides it's doubtful that they'll send you away especially since you're almost 18.
2006-08-21 03:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you gotta go with your heart here, not what your family or anyone one eles wants. What they think of him does not matter. All that matters is how you feel about him. If you believe him to be the right man, go for it...But do not let others make the decision for you....Good luck :>)
2006-08-21 03:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you guys are married and living on your own...your parents can't do anything to you! Don't let them ruin your life if you are happy. They should be accepting of whatever you do!
2006-08-21 03:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋