we were together for two years, and seperated when she moved away for 3 months to help the family business. i took it very personally and was very alone. i then had a one night stand and wish it never happened. Im truly sorry for it but she cannot forgive me. i deserve it but should love be thrown away so easily.
2006-08-21 03:14:27 · 22 answers · asked by edlangmead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unfortunately you were the one who threw away love so easily,I don't blame her if she doesn't take you back.You should have thought of this before you had a one night stand
2006-08-21 03:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by susie boz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should never be thrown away so easily "if' it is filled with sincerity. Anyhow it takes a great one to admit his/her mistake but the sad thing is some faults are not forsaking. Your girlfriend is hurt and that's the reason why she has not forgiven you. But if you are truly sorry for what you did and you value her, then do not give up. Persuade her and above all assure her that, what happened in the past will never repeat. Keep trying, stay positive but do not loose your self esteem. Give her some time to heal the pain. Make known to her that you still love her and would wait for her to return to you even if it takes awhile. Meanwhile perhaps you should to do some soul searching. Above all stay faithful to her. If she is meant to be with you, she will return. Best of luck.
2006-08-21 03:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to be very hard for her to trust you since you now. I think the best thing to do is tell her you love her and the past two years together have been great and you want to spend the rest of your life with her, and if she does take you back that you will never have any other girl except her and to give you a second chance.
2006-08-21 03:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love would have understood her keeping her obligation to her family and would have supported her instead of having a tantrum. True love would have been faithful to her. Maybe she is being very smart by ending a relationship with a child. Before you are worthy of a good person, you need to mature a whole lot.
2006-08-21 03:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by jiminycricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were on a break!!!!
it happened when U were separated...and U still told her...(maybe when U shouldn't have...) tell her that she is the only woman in UR life and that U want her back...that U would never have done that if U stayed 2gether...
ps: hope that by separated...U don't mean "were apart" coz that's different...if U had a one night stand while U still were 2gether it's called cheating....
2006-08-21 03:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Celebriel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,you have betrayed her trust and its very natural for her to react the way she is....so just leave it alone...give it some time and see how it goes or else its better if you move on cos even if you have to get back,she wont be able to trust you the way she did earlier and its only gonna be more hurting....
trust is the foundation of every relationship and if trust starts shaking then its a warning and u need to reconsider.....
2006-08-21 03:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about the one-nighter? I assume this is a person with some kind of feelings right? Maybe you should date her not that the other relationship is over.
2006-08-21 03:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by M S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you learnt the hard way but felt close enough to tell her the truth...if she loved you, show her this-show her that you cared so much you had to ask the public! Doing this really shows you mean it, we all make mistakes. But I think you should only get ONE more chance.
2006-08-21 04:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by soggyflipflopbrain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what if she really loved you and thought about taking you back i'd give her mad love and apprecation. even though you were lonely you thought with your penis and not with your brain which was truly messed up. sorry won't stop the pain and sorry sure as hell won't stop you from being more lonely than you really are.if you love her fight until she see's that she is worth all the love you have to give.
2006-08-21 03:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Marty Johnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were not together there is nothing for her to forgive you for as you were not dating she was the one that went away. sounds like it has ran its course and if you are meant to be together you wont have to win her back as you will both be drawn back to in to each others lives.
2006-08-21 03:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by pussycatwinnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother trying to win the selfish bint back if she disapeared for 3 months. I bet if you just accepted it and started to move on she would come running back anyway. sounds like a selfish moo cow to me though
2006-08-21 03:24:37 · answer #11 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋