my bf is moving to virginia on monday and i wont get to see him that much this week because monday-thursday i am going up north. when he leaves do u think that i should stay single or move on?
2006-08-21 03:10:57 · 40 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st ask urself do u really love him n then u'll get the answer to this question urself
2006-08-21 03:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you are really mad in love with each other then he would have asked if you wanted to go with him, but if you are just having some fun then Yes by all means move on, just like explain to him are we serious with each other, and if he don't give you a answer then you should explain to him how you are feeling, as you do not want to get hurt, as long distance relationships don't work that well, and besides you both might see someone else you like, and go with that person, I am sorry if this sounds a bit off putting, but you really need to have a serious talk with each other to see what youboth want in life!
2006-08-21 03:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by deano2806 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If such a move makes it a long distance relationship that won't allow you to visit frequently or there are no plans in the near future to lessen the gap between the two of you then move on without him and if it was meant to be let fate bring the two of you together at another time.
2006-08-21 03:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stau single 4 a while. Never rush into another relationship, give urself time to grow and heal to learn to trust. Y u guys stop going out anyway, u could try a long distance relationship at firts, if it is true love it WILL work out trust me, if it is not love then it won't. True love always finds its way back to the lovers arms.
2006-08-21 03:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know how serious you are, how much you love him. If love is strong enough (from both sides), it overcomes anything, distance or time alone. So look in your heart and ask yourself if he's the one. If he is, then spending some time away is not the end of the world. See it as a test of how strong you're feelings, and his feelings, really are. Wish you all the best.
2006-08-21 03:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh, move on, yeah it will suck for a while, but why be lonely the rest of your life, i hate to be mean about it but seriously, even if he was or is the love of your life, you have to pass the time and being lonely isnt the answer, lonelyness makes a person feel meaningless. Then a person that feels meaningless tries to find an easy out, this makes for a bat time for all of those around that person. Trust me move on and be happy, give it a little time then go live your life.
good luck
2006-08-21 03:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erica...My name is Erica as well.I think long distance relationships don't really work..I mean I heard a few which lasted for a while,but after partners just drifted apart.U choose.It just isn't the same when u don't get to meet ur boy almost every day...u don't do things with him...
2006-08-21 03:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by ic3g7rl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what dose your heart fell folow that girl do not dich the guy for no reason other then he is far away. look if he treats you good and he is a nice guy i would not even think about it becouse trust me there is not many of us around any more and it will be hard for you to find another guy like him trust me and long distens relationships do work they just take more work that is all and if you give up so easy then just call your self lazy
2006-08-21 03:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by martyself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is what you desire. if you still like/love your bf then say with him as a long distance relationship you could talk on the phone or on the computer.
if you want to move on then go ahead there are a lot of single guys out there. what ever your heart desires.
2006-08-21 03:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's my experience that long-distance love just doesn't work. Life is very short but full of new joys and loves everywhere. Until you are old enough and smart enough to settle down to a "committed" relationship---- move on to new experiences and new loves.
2006-08-21 03:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by dfb_oldwarrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two should stay together, but have a open relationship. If you really love him and he loves you no matter if it's long distance the relationship can work if ya'll stick together and think positive, cause all it takes is a little trust.
2006-08-21 03:20:53 · answer #11 · answered by brackens318 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋