I am completely loyal and in love with my boyfriend. But some men will still try to hit up on me. They think it is good time to hit on me when he is away. My heart aches for my boyfriend and he trust me and I would never ruin that trust. It is like they have no respect for me or my wonderful boyfriend. Men don't respect a loyal woman. They wouldn't want someone to hit on their girl. Guys seem to have double standards, they don't want a cheating wh___, but they don't mind trying to pick up another man's woman. I think it is trashy. What do you think?
2006-08-21 03:10:27 · 20 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I tell them my boyfriend is in Iraq, they take that as a green light
2006-08-21 03:22:54 · update #1
Mistaken ~
You are a good woman, I wish that there were more like you. My Great Grandfather was on the beach in Normandy and he died there, leaving behind his wife and two sons, I have read the letters from him to his wife telling him how fortunate he was to have her and it was her that was helping him through all of his worries. One of her two sons married and had a son went into the service (Army) and went to Korea, my Grandfather wrote to my Grandmother everyday and wrote to her how special she was and it was her that was getting him through the war. My Father was in Vietnam and he died there in his helmet were letters from my Mother. My two oldest Brothers served in the Persian Gulf one died there he had a picture of his wife and child rapped in plastic and shoved in his boot, his last phone call home to us he expressed how much he loved his wife and child. My youngest brother was on his third tour in Iraq when he was killed by a roadside bomb, inside his helmet were letters from his wife. My point is you're helping your man out in so many ways you can't begin to imagine how much strength you give him. My Granfather and Brother have told me on more than one occasion " A woman's love will carry you through any war" all my respect and prayers are with you and yours, hold on Mistaken. Karma is alive and well.....................................................................Mistaken, If what Death has written is true then,,,,,,Like I said "Karma is alive a well... Shame will be onto you.
2006-08-21 04:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Santana D 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being ex-military my dear and knowing that I had a unfaithful women while I was away alot of men know that military wifes or girlfriends for that matter are dealing with alot of stress and most fold when they are pressured by a man that is available while theirs is not. Temptation, we all can fall victim to it so fast even if it be a fleeting second in time we can be seduced and fall. It is not a lack of respect it is a lack of morales. In this world we throw them to the wind cause in this new age it is all about how bold you are and the risk you will take to prove that you are everything that in your heart you know you are not. Most loyal women these days hardly stay that way military women are the majority cause what could be a 8 month stint overseas can suddenly turn into a 3 year stint and faith begins to fade as loneliness creeps in. Don't let them ruin you and don't put yourself into situations where you make it seem like you are opening your door to men that want to sleep with you. In other words if they cant respect your relationship do not im them or accept phone calls etc etc etc. Have a nice day!
2006-08-21 10:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do all of these men know you're boyfriend is in Iraq? Men like that give decent guys a bad name. Just tell them all to fack off. You're right about the double standard part, but of course there's women out there that are just as bad. I hope he make it back ok.
2006-08-21 10:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your right 100% why can't they accept that some people have morals. but on the other side if they don't know up front about your boyfriend they are going to take a chance. If they know about him then they are in the wrong.
I hope your boyfriend comes home soon!! he shouldn't be there in the first place!!! We need them home to protect the US not a foriegn country. Wish him well and good cover to protect him.
2006-08-21 10:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yep...they think being a player is good (for a guy and only for a guy...of course...) and yet if they can get U 2 cheat on UR boyfriend they'll think U R a bad girl and won't respect U anymore.... what U R doin is great, turn them down sayin that U love UR boyfriend and that U don't want anybody else!!
2006-08-21 10:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Celebriel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is very trashy, but that is a guys for. i can tell them I'm married and they will say he dose not have to know. It is so disrespectful. Sorry you have to go thru that. All i can say to do is tell them you love someone else, tell them you have a boyfriend, or ignore them. It is hard and they might call you a bit** but they are just immature if they do.
2006-08-21 10:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if the guys know that you have a bf, then i totally agree with you. Stay loyal to your man. Cause all those guys are just a test thru a very stupid obstacle course that many people go thru to see if they could stay true to their love ones.
2006-08-21 10:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men are trashy, plain and simple. Men are very basic animals, and consider it quite the coup to have another man's woman.
Disgusting I know, and very primitive, but that's where most people are.
Stay strong, stay loyal, avoid them if you have to
2006-08-22 00:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by lowflyer1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's trashy ... most men have double standards but maybe they are not properly aware that you're attached? Or maybe it's just a reflex action on their part. Just tell them firmly to get lost!
2006-08-21 10:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i will pray for you , you are very very good person . just ignore bad ppl , and the most important is dont give men chance to hit on you ,
my dear if you show all men that you love your man and you will wait for him and you recpect him , belive me no body will try with you ,,,,, god help and protect you
2006-08-21 10:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by sad man 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋