Is it appropriate?
2006-08-21 02:56:54 · 34 answers · asked by MissIndependanceday 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes! By all means, yes... if women want true equality, then they need to risk being rejected just like men have all these years!
I see nothing wrong with women "chasing" after a guy. Quite frankly I don't care much for "demure" or "shy" women, and I think being approached by a woman who was interested would be quite the turn on.
2006-08-21 03:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Physh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOULTELY NOT.
My friend Nicole chased after a guy named Justin. At first, I thought it was really cute and going against the norm. Then it got to his head, and although he was NOT the ****, having her chase him made him think he was the ****... it went downhill from there... I lost a lot of respect for her as time went by becuase the extent to which she was chasing him got more and more while he started taking advantage of it...
Then, I ended up chasing a guy too even though I promised I wouldnt after witnessing that incident. I thought Justin was just an exception to a generally well mannered respectable male species. At first, my guy really liked it and thought it was really cute but then... it started getting to his head also. I found myself in another Nicole-Justin situation. It was bad.
I'v learned, girls chasing guys is cute at first but very quickly grows tiresome and since it is not typical in society... obviously theres a reason for that. Dont go against the norms, they usually exist for a reason.
At this time in the history of the world, I dont think men are quite ready to be chased. (But if you still dont believe me then try it for urself. Unless there is something wrong with the guy --super desperate-- it wont last if you chase him)
2006-08-21 03:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority of people will agree, that it is perfectly fine or its completley out of the question. So think about it this way:
If the guy you want to chase after LIKES attention, LIKES to be with a woman he is dating constantly, ISN'T hard to get, and HAS time to be chased then go for it. Otherwise, you are making a fool of yourself.
2006-08-21 03:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should a guy chase after a girl?
we have equal rights you know but try not to be a stalker or a flirt
2006-08-21 03:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by hardcore_rayaljun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must do the best to get the Mr right in any case, being chased or chase him. Look for Mr right. If he is, than yes
2006-08-21 03:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by Super♥♥♥man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may never appreciate you, or he may disrespect you eventually or take you for granted...you can make a move, but the actual "chasing" is done by the man, no matter how shy or inexperienced...a guy who really is into will let try his best to get you.
2006-08-21 03:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Chasing is not a patent right of boys, so if you find a guy worth chasing then do chase him.
2006-08-21 03:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by raj303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if it's deemed "appropriate" or not? Go for what you want because if you sit on your butt, waiting for him to chase you, someone else will chase him and have him.
2006-08-21 03:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Let the men do the chasing. Women chasing men look cheap, desperate and unattractive.
2006-08-21 03:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by chic_a_cherry_cola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if she loves him. Love knows no gender. If you are in love then you chase it to the end of the earth.
2006-08-21 03:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by MerGirl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋