2006-08-21 02:31:37 · 13 answers · asked by tareqzeyadr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cuz if u really love someone, u make them as part of ur life and everything but when they didnt think it that way or they want break up. u totally lose it. just think, if u got everything and suddenly it all gone totally. it's really scary and sad.
2006-08-21 02:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your either young or had some bad experiences because love is not always covered in fear. In fact, love banishes fears.
Real love makes you feel secure in it. You know that come what may, that love is there for you.
If you are feeling fear where there is love, there is something wrong in the picture.
2006-08-21 09:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is covered with fear cos we love truly. The fear is fear of betrayal, fear of losing the one you love, etc .
2006-08-21 09:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by oops1388 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fear is knowing that you may have to open your heart and make it available to the other person. there has to be an element of trust. for many, trust is hard to give away freely. there is always the possibility of being hurt. some who have been betrayed by love take a long time to recover. (IF they recover!! it's like having a really serious injury you have to go to rehab for for an unknown period of time!)) some remain bitter for a long time. love is a game of chance. sometimes you win, sometimes you lose.
2006-08-21 09:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fear that you'll give yourself to them completely and they'll lie, cheat, leave you, or just not like you. Then your heart will be broken and you won't find another. ;o That's what the fear is.
2006-08-21 09:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do and try your hardest at love..........and it fails, then you can walk away without regrets.
over the years i see it like this.....
if you meet someone and it's like you have know them your whole life.......kinda like family, they are great and all, but there's something else to it that you can't quite put your finger on.........that thing is love.......
point is if you live this way.......the fear will not be there.
don't hold on so tight that you choke the person......
everyone needs time to miss someone........even lovers.
2006-08-21 09:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of losing control..............but then again, that's what makes it so wonderful!! Not to mention growing as a person, so hey, it's worth it. If it wasn't a bit scary, it would be boring
2006-08-21 09:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fear that you will give your heart & soul to someone & they will leave you for someone else.
2006-08-21 09:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fear of getting hurt...of getting dumped or smthing.
2006-08-21 09:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by ic3g7rl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are not born psychic, and never know what is on each others minds. Love/relationships take work, and some people are not ready to dig in
2006-08-21 09:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by jeremiah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋