see i met this girl through a friend. she used 2 like him but things didnt work out. dat was 9 months ago, now she has a man and we just recently started talkin on the phone like a few weeks ago. on my bday we went out to eat and see a movie, there she laid her head on my shoulders, and then i took her to the beach. a few days later i took her out 2 mcdonalds and she started complaining about her man. 2 days ago i went again with her to the movies and again she laid her head on my shoulders, to give her a hint that i like her i asked if her man had ever taken her out places and she said no, to which i said, well if i was ur man i would take you out everywhere. and the other day while we were txting about nightmares she told me to dream about her, and she also said that she had to do one last thing with her man and then it was over. but i dont know if i should tell her how i feel or if she likes me at all. please help
2006-08-21 02:16:57 · 19 answers · asked by lexusrydr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be her friend for now. she obviously trusts you enough to confide in you. when the time is right you should tell her how you feel but not too so if she is planning a break up. When opportunity presents itself and if it's meant to happen between you two it will
2006-08-21 02:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by donise225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it sounds like you acquire a good head on your shoulders. I advise i'm 17 and a senior and a similar way as you and that i have not had a bf. Its not something to really worry about, even as the time comes it is going to ensue and also you'll get a boyfriend. till then relish being unmarried and in no way having to "answer" to any boys.
2016-11-30 22:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is still with the other guy - its ok to tell her you like her - but just stay her friend - if you push the situation it will backfire on you. The key is no pressuring her and just focus on enjoying the time you are with her. If the other guy is a creep she will eventually realize you are he better choice and the beginnings of this romance will grow. She sounds a bit confused.
There is no formula that is a guarentee to work - but if things don't work with this girl - you know you put your best foot forward - that is really all you can ultimately do and it will be her loss and not yours if that is what you do (and some lucky other girl who you will meet in the future).
2006-08-21 02:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel and wait for her to end it with the boyfriend. For your conscience's sake, don't make any more moves until the boyfriend is out of the picture. It wasn't really cool of her to be going to movies with you while seeing this other guy in the first place. What will stop her from doing that to you if/when things settle down?
2006-08-21 02:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the expression "Arz kicked up around your shoulders?" Well this is what happens to guys who make a habit of hitting on girls who have boy friends. So unless you think you're going to be more attractive walking around looking at people out of your own rectum; maybe you should concentrate your attention on single girls. Just a thought.
2006-08-21 02:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by perfecttiming1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if girl like other dude even though she already got a boyfriend. there are 2 kinds of that which are:
she is either a wh*re
or
her boyfriend is really a bad guy
I belong to the 2nd kind but til nw i cant find someone else. but i told u what, all u have to do is just wait for her to break up with her boyfriend first and see which kind of girl do she belong to. good luck :)
2006-08-21 02:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not she is happy with her man, remain friends with her and that's it. She has her issues and you don't want to get in the middle of that by letting her know that you're interested. Just remain friends with her... sounds like that's what she wants now anyway. If you're looking for love, there are other available fish in the sea.
2006-08-21 02:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, tell her how you feel. Man up. Get some nutts. If you like her step to her. Be the one in her life she talks to her friends about (good things) The only thing she can say is no. But looks like you got this in the bag. Good luck, make alot of babies!
2006-08-21 02:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by T L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her n tell her how u feel. If it is that she feels the same way then wait until she breaks up with her bf fir b4 u make any rash move.
On the other hand the girl is prbly just playing u for a fool by just goin out with ya!!!!!!!!!!
good luck though!!!!!!
2006-08-21 02:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting in far too deep; you should have left 'well enough alone' at the beginning; and you are unsettling her.
You need to get out and away from it.
and count it as a lesson learned while young.
2006-08-21 02:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋