My boyfriend, Iv always wondered if he really loved me like he says.. He always looks me in the eyes when he says it and kisses me after and pulls me closer, hes the one who said it first, he always kisses me whenever hes on the phone with someone atleast once, he pulls me closer around his friends, he tells all his friends and family about me, he introduces me as his girlfriend, he told me that hes never felt this way about a girl before and that hes scared, he wants to have sex with me but he said not untill im completly ready, hes a little emotional..like as in, he gets scared hes gonna lose me, He told me whenschool starts he wouldnt like any other girl but me, he told me his friends and family likes me..
I have a feeling that he Does love me, than again.. theres something in me that says im going to get hurt and i know its all bout taking chances, which i did.. but am i just scared and being dumb and to stupid to see that he does? or is this gonna be one of those 2 week things
2006-08-21 02:12:31 · 13 answers · asked by SweetiePie909 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dumb lame question over and over
2006-08-21 02:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyhfriend has shown you in every possible way through his actions that he really cares about you. Why then are you paranoid about his not loving you at all. What you feel is merely a presumption that someday you will get hurt but that is something you should erase from your mind if you want to be completely happy with the one that you love and who loves you for sure.
Eliminate those worries in your system because it will show through the way you react on what he does to you. I believe that he won't like the idea of your having doubts about his love for you. You are lucky beause your boyfriend is very proud to have you in his life which shows in the way he tells his friends and relatives about you.
Just put all your trust and confidence in him. Love him more. Be more caring and loving and show the world that you love him also. Give the best love that you could ever give your boyfriend and I'm sure that the best love from him would be coming back to you. Cheers for you are well loved.
2006-08-21 02:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all you said in your details, you know he loves you. Your the one who's unsecure and the only reason you asked this is so you know weather or not to love him back. The only person who has a chance of getting hurt here is the guy. And as far as you don't want it to be one of those 2-week things, why would a guy be proposing to have sex with you at less than 2 weeks of dating?
2006-08-21 02:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a guy that treats his girlfriend like this loves her.It sounds like he has alot of respect for you too since he is not pressuring you to have sex before your ready.Thats a good thing.Just take one day at a time and see how things work out.Your pretty lucky to find a guy like this.Just enjoy the relationship and don't worry so much.
2006-08-21 02:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlittlemama2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think he loves you after what you just wrote about his lady - he needs to look for a new girlfriend -because you are obviously not worth of the attention he is giving you.
2006-08-21 02:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
omg.. he do so much good thing for u and u think he dont love u?!
well, i tell u about me and my bf and how bad is he. he dont worry about me when i am sick, he prefer to play his game instead. He dont jealous when i hang out with guys. He dont care about me, when i am bored i call him, he just hang up the phone or dont pick up.
U got guy who are 99% better than mine!
Dont think too much!
2006-08-21 02:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me he really loves u but if u have not been with him long chances are he maybe a little confused about his feelings at this point
good luck
2006-08-21 02:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by vampgirl_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl im in the same situation. i get so scared and people dont make it easier. just trust your self and trust him. it sounds like he really loves you and this has made me realise that my bf probally really likes me to coz he also does all that stuff but i still get insecure. i dont know why and i never will. its just me i guess. lol well good luck. and i hope u dont get hurt!
2006-08-21 02:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish I could reach through the screen and smack you! Isn't this what all girls want from a guy?!?!? what's a matter with you, knock it off and enjoy yourselves!
2006-08-21 02:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by jeremiah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just to young and immature to be in a realtionship, maybe you just need to step back and find yourself instead of worrying about a man
2006-08-21 02:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are you going to know if you cant open yourself to it... sounds like a guy we would all want. maybe hes just infactuated and it will wear off. maybe he means it... the only way your going to know is if you open yourself to him... or you could loose him.
2006-08-21 02:19:50 · answer #11 · answered by howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋