2006-08-21 00:59:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey guys! why are we all not being truthful with ourselves! All have beaten about the bush yet am sure most of us have watched porn movies and had a yearning to find out how it would feel like to paricipate in anal sex!!!!
What should stop me - a "good" lady - faithfull, loving and caring to my spouce/Bf and who feels like having a little kinkyness in the bedroom, and to top it up, my spouce/Bf who is also adventorous in bed suggests we try it out!!! I see no harm in this as long as there is mutual agreement between both partners.
Just like one said that anal sex is just a "sexual preference" like any of the other thousand styles under "normal" sex, we shouldnt judge a person by the fact that they prefer their coffee either with sugar to cream!!
As a "good woman" I would offer myself up as long as its not painful and I'll get to enjoy! - Anyone out there willing to tell me how to go about it by the way?!!
2006-08-21 02:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by clueless j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure - but by implying that she must be a slut if she's willing to do that, would she offer it up to you? What's your definition of a "Good woman" that you have to put it in quotation marks? If her lover/husband was a "good man" would he want to try anal? Or since he's "good" does that mean only straight missionary, no lights, no moaning, roll over & go to sleep once he's finished?
Wow - sounds like my ex-husband. There isn't anything wrong with or kinky about anal, but remarks like this give it a certain connotation. In a consensual relationship the give and take is important & anal may be a part of a couples' repertoire without making them "bad". It's all good . . .
2006-08-21 01:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to "offer up", she will. If she doesn't, she won't. But it's her choice, not yours.
If you're her "lover" and not her husband, she obviously enjoys sex without committments, so the odds are pretty good that she's open to experimenting. If she's your wife, you have a lot more on your plate than anal sex to deal with.
2006-08-21 01:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Bo D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have never been interested in anal i suggest if that is your preference just go with a gay bloke most women are interested in a loving sex life that is pain free and anal sex would not be pain free as it isn't meant for sex.
2006-08-21 01:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She refuse to offer up anal sex because she want to be a good women.
2006-08-21 01:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by abotraka777 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea sure. also u can ask her that u wanna. most women are against anal sex. can make woman feel uncomfortable that man **** her ***. some find it as a dirty things. and some love so much their men that even at first it hurts so they will let for that. and u ask good woman. most women even if in life r good ( i think i m) in bed wanna be nasty. not all just wanna tell it loud. we need try new thigns, make sex more intresting.
i like little pain when doing sex.
2006-08-21 01:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by kolo molo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
having anal sex has NOTHING to do with being a good woman. Its just a preference.
2006-08-21 01:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
would you offer it up to her if she asked to do it to you? If she is no interested in it I would not push it. It does not make her good or bad if she does not like something. If you think she is not a good woman for trying it when she does not like it then have her do it to you...(i am sure you are not open to it, so what is the difference if she is not open to it.)
2006-08-21 01:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would a Lover/Husband expect a "good woman" to do something she doesn't want to do??
2006-08-21 01:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by dxle 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
only if it is something they are mutually interested in doing. It doens't make you a "bad woman" if anal sex does not interest you and you don't want to do it.
2006-08-21 01:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋