Do you think there is any chance I might forgive her.By the way I do like Tofu-not sure if that will help in the long term.
2006-08-21 00:54:44 · 42 answers · asked by intotrouble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe when you grow up............... by the way is the picture you!!!!!
2006-08-28 08:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Gninja 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to accept him. If you love your mum, you should try to respect what she has chosen for her future.
After my dad died (I was 5), my mum got together with a severe and strict ex-royal marine. We despised eachother for years. We argued, fought, cried. Then as soon as I turned 20, I saw a different side to him...a sense of humour...some warmth. I have ended up being much more close with him than I ever thought I could be and in a strange way, he is becoming like my father. I NEVER thougt he could be.
So, give the guy a chance. I put up with my situation because I loved and respected my mother. In hindsight, I see why she did what she did. 22 years later, they are still together.
2006-08-26 05:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by twinkletoestheballerina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy Little girl, I am one of those hippie, long haired, tree huggers(love them trees!!)..You probably haven't the real clue as to why the relationship dissapated to begin with. If it wasn't the "Hippie" it may have been your mail man or pizza guy or....Have a life of your own? Is Father o'er 18? Well then.
2006-08-28 11:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because the boyfriend is a tree hugger doesn't make him bad. Look at the situation...your mom left your dad. Let your parents work on the details of divorce and you should just stay out of it so that both parents can love you.
2006-08-28 09:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my parents separated recently too, no-one else involved yet. I'm sure it will happen though. and when it does it wont be a simple situation. its probably less got to do with him being a 'hippie' than the fact that he's with your mum. don't hold such bad energy for people, you're losing out in the end. try to be positive for your mum, and take your time with the new fella. you're not obliged to like him, but neither is your mum obliged to live her life according to what suits you.
2006-08-21 01:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love your mother and respect her.. But you do not owe it to the new boyfriend. But even though you do not like his appearance at least be friendly and give him a chance. Your mother left your dad for a reason and I am sure it started way before the other man came into the picture.
You don't have to like him, but for your mother, be respectful to him when they are together.
2006-08-29 00:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum needed break. you don't know how were the actual relationship between your parents. Sometimes a hell, but maintained between two for the benefit of their children. Perhaps it´ll be temporary, and your mum will come back. If not, let her go, and keep your closeness with her. Be friendly, tomorrow you´ll can understand her.
2006-08-21 01:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by joseph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom deserves all the happiness in this world, this tree hugger obviously respects and adores her, vice/verso and will bring future happiness for both of them for the rest of their lives. When you get to know him, you might like/appreciate him. Wish them all the best, and let your mom get on with her life and you with yours.
2006-08-28 00:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to forgive her - she's left your dad not you to start her new life - maybe one she wishes she'd had all along. I wouldn't worry about not liking your mum's new partner - it's all part of the highly tensioned Oedipus complex and besides us aging hippies aren't much into young corporately blinded, petrol headed, label craving Blairites either.
2006-08-21 01:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in time you may forgive her.. but your entitled to your own opinion and if you dont like those longhaired tree huggers then thats your opinion.
2006-08-21 01:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by confused 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really know how you feel towards your mum and that hippie
guy who has captured your mom's heart. No, don't feel bad
about them, because it's their love, life and responsibility.
You are not in her shoes.
I would advise you to forgive her straightaway, because it is
divine and a good deed to do so. Instead, you have lessen
your anger and hate and increase your love for your mom.
You remember always to follow Jesus Christ ways. Amen.
2006-08-28 04:25:54 · answer #11 · answered by steplow33 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋