I met this guy on the net and we have been talking for a while. He said he love me but i find that type of love impossible. Advice please.
2006-08-21 00:50:58 · 29 answers · asked by precioustt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can become emotionally bonded but I don't think it can be love. You need to spend time together in person before it can be anywhere near love.
2006-08-21 00:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its possible. I know a friend who fall in love with her bf over the internet. they have known each other for like 5 years, and 2 years ago he told her that he is inlove with her, and its hard to believe him but they spend time and now have been together for 1 year and 6 months. So i believe that love over the net is possible. You need alot of trust and a good communication.
Love over the net is different from the one where you meet each other in real life, because over the net, you tend to spend time alot talking, and you fall for each other based on how good the communication of the both of you. You dont judge by their looks because you dont know, you fall for his heart.
Some might say, he is lying, and ask you "how you he is telling the truth?" But think again, why would he spend so much time talking to you ( someone he has never met), rather than the people around him, which is easier.
There are alot of couples who met online and now are happily married. So, it is possible to fall for someone over the net.
2006-08-21 01:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to believe in love but after falling for someone over the "internet" .. I gave up on everything. So we're talking for a year over the internet and phone..so much that this girl professes her love to me.
2 years later .. we meet up for the first time . Within 30 min of meeting for the first time ..we're kissing ...hugging..and i'm kissing her all over. I went home that night thinking I was about to start my life with this wonderful girl...BOY .. was I wrong. As it turns out..she was just playing a game with me and when she told me she loved me in person...it was a lie. Everything was good between us BEFORE we met and after we met it was like she turned into an evil person. Becareful falling for love over the internet because now I don't trust anyone and my life has never been the same again. Nearly 4 - 5 years later Im still stuck on the fact that this girl did me wrong and dirty .
2006-08-21 01:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by xbricksx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have met two people who met over the Internet and are now married. Both couples married a partner from different countries with different cultures. I was amazed.
I think people never admit it when an 'Internet' relationship fails I can't guess what the percentage is for success/failure.
My advice. Tread carefully, there are alot of weirdos out there!!
2006-08-21 00:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, loving you is a bit of a far-fetched statement. I do think you can be attracted to someone you meet on the net. Maybe you like someones ideas or you just like the fact that someone is paying attention to you. Because you haven't met the person in real life you can add qualities to a person that won't be contradicted by the realities of real life. So he probably loves the image he has of you.
2006-08-21 00:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
U know nothing about him other than what he's told U.
Do U know if it's the Truth, Exaggeration or plain & simply, Down-right lies?
U have no way of knowing, exercise some caution.
U don't want 2 end up getting hurt.
My advice 2 U is wait until U meet him in the flesh B4 U start dreaming, huh?
2006-08-21 01:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible to have feelings for someone after so long but make sure you use your instincts they never lie. I have been talking to someone over 5 years and have met a few times and we talk on the phone. The outcome of it all remains to be seen. I like to take my time especially in here.
2006-08-21 01:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya! only if you were a kid....or a baby.... or a complete dumbo.
You can never fall in love until you come to know him personally.... you can never know who the other person really is ...on the internet. He can even be a rapist or any other kind of criminal.....no matter how nice he is over the internet....you can never know. So dont do it......YOU WILL get yourself killed
2006-08-21 00:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Moy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah like the man stated it truly is a commence not an ending. i imagine further and further people are assembly their husbands/better halves and boyfriends/girlfriends on the internet. I mean its not as undesirable I genuinely have heard solid thoughts yet you also get undesirable ones to boot yet you do not favor to be 40 5 and say "what if?" what if i missed out on a staggering friendship/relationship. you recognize??
2016-11-05 07:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u wudnt b asking this ?tion if u havnt already fallen 4 da guy.
But maybe the ?tion shud have been cud I trust sum1 I've met on da net dat shud be the main worry but If u think you've got hots 4 da dude go 4 it dat's one way 2discover.
2006-08-21 09:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by TheCruiserBoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you happened to have photos of yourself, i would say he's just looking for some sex.
If not, i would concur with you. How do you fall in love over the internet?
Unless you've been talking to him like for the past 2 years, and he can anticipate your mood based on words, and that he truly knows you, then it might happen.
But other than that, cautionary is the best defence!
2006-08-21 00:56:04 · answer #11 · answered by Jeremy Lee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋