Do you believe Greg Behrendt? The author of "He's just not that into you"?

Question

Voice your opinions! Do you really think what he's saying makes any sense? Or it's totally overated and we girls make excuses all the time?

What if there are real and sincere reasons why guys break those "sins" (like "he's not calling you, dump him!", "he's not dating you, dump him!"), what would you do? Like how Liz always complains, it's not always easy!

Voice your opinions, do you think the book makes sense? Or it's just a piece of bullshit so the author Greg Behrendt can cash in on its popularity, cuz he knows the psychology of "He's just not that into you" is so new?

Give you guys an example. I have a guy friend (we like each other) who talks a lot about me when he is with this friend, and this friend tells me everything he said. Great, he is really into me as he does see marriage in the picture and he can be so excited about me. But why hasn't he made the moves as described by Greg?

If we're to apply the "He's just not that into you" rule, how can such situation be justified?

Answer 1

I read the book and dont buy his ideas bse people aren't the same and most men never want to show how much they love,.

Answer 2

In a way I think most of the stuff in the book is true. It's just hard to follow it through when you're smitten, isn't it? I strongly believe that when a man truly and deeply loves you, he won't let anything stand in between the two of you. I think us women need to start putting some value to ourselves to get what we really deserve and not anything that comes along, even men who are not right for us. We need to stop making excuses for other people's bad behavior just coz we're scared to lose them. Been there and I know what I'm talking about.

Answer 3

I prefer listen to myself and my instinct. I would definitely call him if he doesn't call me back. We could just be friends....and who know what's next. Friendship is a starter for every relationship.