1) what are the physical things you like? does he have to be muscular etc.........
2) what are the personality traits that attract you most?
3)does the fact ive never had a girlfriend put you off? or attract you more?
2006-08-21 00:34:27 · 17 answers · asked by supersam82 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps im 24 years old
2006-08-21 05:07:57 · update #1
Im not as confident around girls as id sometimes like to be. im a mature guy who wants to love somebody, and a bit of a mr nice guy!!
2006-08-21 05:11:17 · update #2
a guy does not have any physical specialities, just a normal looking guy!!!
what attracts me is good humour and funny, witty, strong...
2006-08-21 00:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Intelligence - enough sense to know not to wolf whistle at a girl or comment on her legs to get her attention. He must have goals - like be employed, in college (or both) and be really motivated
2. He has to be clean and well-groomed even if he only wears jeans
3. This may sound strange, but if a guy seems a little silly in the beginning and maybe you think he's a little shy but you can tell he really likes you - this is great. In my case, it was just a perfect combination.
4. He must be kind. A girl should observe how a guy treats both males and females, his friends, workmates, family and especially the girl herself. Only time can really tell about this one.
5. Patience is so important especially when it comes to putting up with a girl's annoying habits and if she does something like snoop in his stuff. It's usually because she wants to know more about how he feels about her.
6. Sorry, this may be shallow, but a guy has to be good looking. Weight usually isn't an issue, but really hugely fat people of both sexes are a turn-off.
7. He has to be honest and faithful.
8. This is also something that will take time to discover - you both have to be sexually compatible. If she wants it 3 times a day and you're a once-a-monther you're not gonna last. If its the other way around, same thing.
9. A man must be able to communicate. He doesn't have to be chatty or have a gazillion friends, but he has to be able to clearly make his needs be known. This goes right along with the next thing which is:
10. He must be a good listener
11. In my estimation he should be of better than average size and be able to use it well. A woman also usually hates to give head constantly-especially if a man doesn't reciprocate. It is a real compliment when foreplay and intercourse are enough.
I can think of some other things, probably, but this should be you started. Most of all, remember that most women want a good man who will provide for her and give her children and a little security. We really do love you guys.
2006-08-28 22:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by pamela f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you probably figured out by now not all women like the same things in a man. If we did life would be pretty dull to all be or like the same don't you think. I don't think muscles are that important. No offense to any guys out there however i do like a man who physically looks after himself, not too big not too skinny, of course "personal choice".I like a man with a good sense of humor, not too intelligent, don't want to look too stupid lol. A man who knows what he wants in life. Shouldn't matter to anyone whether you have had a girlfriend or not, you don't sound that old anyway!
2006-08-21 08:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like guys with some muscle they don't have to have a 6 pack i like guys with semi long hair i don't want it too short or looking like a girl.
i'm attracted to the smart cute nice guys that treat me well and even if i embarrassed myself completley they wouldn't care.
The fact that you never had a Girlfriend may make me wonder but id rather get to know you first before i decide to go out with you so wether u have had a girlfriend or not doesn't really mader to me
2006-08-23 10:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, yes, I like a muscular man; he doesn't have to look like Mr. Universe, just look like he does something besides sit on his butt. Secondly, he should have a good sense of humor, always, but be serious and sensitive when it's called for. He should be self-assured, but not cocky, intelligent, and industrious.
Why have you never had a girlfriend? I would have to know that to determine if it puts me off.
2006-08-21 07:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by deonne r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 he has to have a soh and know how to have a good laugh
2 a smile and eyes
3 it dont put me off it attracts me to you more :p
2006-08-21 07:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Foxy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He should be talented. A jack of all trades really.
2. He must be sincere, intelligent, honest, trustworth, reliable and lovable.
3. It will make me attract me more because if we should have a relationship you will respect me and will have my best interests at heart.
2006-08-21 07:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like guys with kinda long hair and to be honest someone who likes to go out and have a good time not to short or to tall someone l can talk to and treat me nice someone average not to thin or to big most of all not to young
2006-08-29 01:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by sunday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tall muscles and chemistry nice eyes medium weight
funny , faithful, honest, hardworking,
no it would not put me off him, never having a girlfriend it would be nice knowing because your looking for someone special not just anyone
2006-08-27 19:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by jazzie_jue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Medium build,as long as he is fit and healthy,doesnt has to be really muscular
2.maturity ,honest,unselfish
3.depends,if u're mature and know how to treat a lady with respect ( then u're a gentleman),that'll be attractive.But if u're immature obviously u don't know what to do
2006-08-21 07:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋