First off flirting ends when touching starts. If you're kissing or holding someone, that's not flirting.
If you're already married, flirting is hurtful to your spouse, and disrespectful of that relationship, which should mean more to you than any other relationship (or why get married?). Flirting is sending a signal that you're interested in someone and that's inappropriate if you're already in a mutually exclusive relationship. The best rule of marriage is to put your spouse above all others in consideration (that goes for both spouses, so that respect is going both ways). Do what is best for him or her. That will keep your relationship strong, stable and happy. Flirting with others leads to hurt, resentment, poor self-esteem for your mate, and possible retaliation. It's not worth it.
2006-08-21 00:29:13
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answered by wynterwood 3
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Flirting and teasing I am sure should continue after marriage as long as it stays WITHIN the marriage. I love flirting with my GF, PDA's and teasing only makes things hotter. When it goes outside the relationship that is when things get rocky.
2006-08-21 07:27:08
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answered by kunkko 2
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Flirting keeps people from feeling like no one finds them attractive anymore. As long as there is nothing physical, (or a promise of physical activity) there is not anything wrong with it. TO me flirting is only verbal, just talking to a person. but after you are married you should not talk to someone else like you are single.
2006-08-21 07:25:14
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answered by {Lisa} 3
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I don't think that it's a good idea. There may be a little room for verbal flirting, but not much. Physical flirting as you've described is a definite no-no.
2006-08-21 07:24:26
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answered by John 4
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I think everyone flirts, even if you think your not doing it. Your doning it and you don't notice. When you meet someone the first thing you do is flirt. So as far as you go is your business. Now that's when flirting becomes to cheating.
2006-08-21 07:26:42
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answered by Anonymous
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definatley not,kissing someone else in th uk is still classed as being unfaithfull no way beyond that,ask yourself if you really love th person your married to because if you truly did then you wouldn't be looking elsewhere n wanting other contact with other people,i think it could be damaging in the long run,wouldnt recomend it
2006-08-21 07:26:36
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answered by charlie baby 1
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yes most definitely. Or you guys will get bored with each other and will start having affairs. So keep the flame alive dude, whatever it takes. It sure is worth the sacrifice.
2006-08-21 07:23:02
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answered by Rock Angel 4
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FLIRTING INVOLVES NO TOUCH. IT IS VISUALOR SPOKEN INTEREST WITHOUT BEING TOO DIRECT.JUST GIVING HINTS . I WOULDN'T SUGGEST IT!!! SENDS WRONG SIGN TO OTHERS AND THE PERSON U ARE FLIRTING WITH MIGHT TAKE U SERIOUS AND CAUSE DRAMA. UR WOMAN/MAN MAY WONDER WHAT IS DIFFERENT BOUT THE COMPLIMENTS U GIVE THEM?? WHAT MAKES THEM SPECIAL???
2006-08-21 07:29:12
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answered by miss renee 3
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Yes It keeps both husband & wife fresh . Also keep discussing about flirting when both of you in bed. it gives freshness & enjoyment
2006-08-21 07:48:15
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answered by narendra k 3
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its just one step closer to infidelity so dont even take that step. it's morally wrong to be married but to pretend your available by flirting-the wife will at some point catch on and it can cause serious problems
2006-08-21 07:24:42
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answered by scarlet_bat 4
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