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one minute they want you the nexy they don't then they do again how do you figure them out???? HELP boys and girls perspective please!!!!

2006-08-20 23:51:20 · 40 answers · asked by ladeee lindel 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

40 answers

Thats what they do best, is it not ?

2006-08-21 03:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by magnoliamillie 2 · 1 1

Well your man probably wants you all the time but you may have been rejecting him quite often. So he now feels that he shouldn't approach you in that way because you will reject him again. So he feels that you don't want him because you haven't reassured him enough after rejection and now he thinks you don't want him. So if he's been rejected enough and you haven't reassured him enough he will feel this way. I am not saying you can't reject him, a man can live without sex for a while quite easily he just has to get used to it, furthermore if you want him, but he's not realising then be a lot more forward. In other words don't hide true sexual feelings from each other and you should get along fine with the knacking.

2006-08-21 01:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Not sure how old you are but seems you are dealing with boys or very young adults.

You haven't met the correct man yet. When you do the will be completely different than your use to. He just might want you all the time.

By the way when you find the man that wants to be with you more than his friends, his work or his sports you will know he is the one.. Of course you will have to want the same as him.

2006-08-21 00:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mit 4 · 3 2

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Oh dear how long have you got ? ...

Basically because we ( as you do women about men )
have all sorts of misunderstandings, doubts, fears,
insecurites,worries and the list goes on about women.

Some of us try and combat this by asking, talking about it
and being as open as possible, but this is not easy as it
it can feel very exposing ( does to me anyway and I am
trying very hard to practice what I preach in this ) and
shows a level of vulnerability that society as a whole does
not wish to accept is there in men, all the old steroetypical
roles to deal with etc ... So maybe talking and asking is the answer for you as well ... Oh best not forget all the emotional
difficulties and reams of therapeutic models like attachment theory etc ... lol ... They can be part of it but not always :-) ...

So not a great deal of difference between us after all maybe.

Hope of some little help and if you can give me all the answers about women I wll be eternally grateful

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2006-08-21 00:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

This is a broad generalization of guys, but here goes: Until a guy is actually committed to a girl, he continually looks for the best option out there. Sometimes you look like the best option, but tomorrow something else can have his attention. It's a constant ebb and flow with guys. We're afraid we might be missing something. Once we find the person that we think can't be topped by someone else, we marry them.

2006-08-20 23:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by John 4 · 7 2

THey do me like that all the time. IF you want to know if someone is honest and wants to be with you then they will. Just give it time and see what happens. Keep an open mind. Listen to what they have to say, but don't believe every word. If they like you they will stay around for a long time.

2006-08-20 23:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by cottoncandysky40 2 · 3 1

I am in the same position as you, I liked this guy for ages and we kissed and stuff and he used to always to text me, then he got a girlfriend so I didnt hear from him then he finished with her and started texting me again being very flirty. Then went in the pub last night which he goes in and he wasnt in, lefted and walked up the road to get something to eat and saw him with his ex.......I do not understand men and dint think I ever will!!!

2006-08-21 00:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 3 1

Basically, we'll get away with as much as we can - If you allow yourself to be messed around then you'll be messed around.

Generally, we're just a bunch of kids who want to have our cake and eat it, think with our willies and don't take things too seriously.

Bit like a trained monkey but no so hairy (in most cases)

2006-08-21 00:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by The Wandering Blade 4 · 6 1

Hello Lady woman...
Nick here...
Try reading the book Men are from Mars ,Women from Venus'
It help you to understand why these things happen.
Good luck
-x-

2006-08-21 00:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by NICK J 2 · 1 1

Men are probably more complicated creatures than women because they are very bad at communicating and showing their real feelings.
Women on the otherhand cry openly and actually demand and shout about what they want!

2006-08-20 23:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

Men use extremely small amounts of the brain matter they have upstairs so this leads to a problem with an extremely short attention span. They usually tend to think with the head below the belt rather than the one above. We won't ever figure them out just like they will never figure us out.

2006-08-20 23:56:54 · answer #11 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 4 4

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