2006-08-20 23:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It isn't normal. But there may be hope. Who knows in a different world we could have hooked up.
2006-08-20 23:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there's hope. Just don't be desperate. I'm 20 and have never been in a relationship (casual or serious) at all. Is that normal? It's normal for me. I think your real question is that you're wondering what's wrong with you for not having had sex yet or for not attracting the right guy and this is to do with self confidence or loneliness or depression.
There's nothing wrong with not having sex before marriage. There's nothing wrong with not having had a steady relationship. There's nothing wrong with being single. It all depends on your perspective. Don't let the world tell you that you should have been married five years ago. Don't let the world tell you that you should be in a relationship. Don't let the world tell you that you should sleep with every boyfriend.
Better to wait for a decent guy than just jump in with anyone who asks you out just so you can have sex. Dare to be different from the world. Be happy with yourself and you're more likely to catch a serious guy's attention than you would be wondering whether you're normal or not.
2006-08-21 06:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sindri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sonnia, If you have other matters that stand or stood in the way of a relationship, I am sure you have adjusted to that fact. If you are now interested in a relationship, than obviously you have overcome those obstacles. Whatever the case, you might find solace in knowing that some people do put love and relationships on the back burner for a time. And then when they are ready, they seek and conquer
2006-08-21 06:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to find somewhere to meet quality people. I would think if you spent your time and efforts helping others (like with volunteer work) you will get your mind off of the virginity/boyfriend thing and really start giving of yourself. The man of your dreams will come along when you're not looking and least expect it. Yes, there is hope. Just don't make it your full focus in life.
2006-08-21 06:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange , i'm 29 and haven't had real sex or a stable girlfriend. I never would have thought I'd still be alone at 29 but I am.
2006-08-21 06:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by xbricksx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex by 30 is pretty damn strange...definately not normal (or even desirable).
If you're not fat and nasty, there is hope....just start hanging around alot at bars/pubs, and I'm sure some guy will take you home with him.
2006-08-21 06:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 yr old virgin....what a treat for the man when he gets you. Its rare to be a virgin at that age, but not unheard of. My brother married a 37 y/o virgin. Good Luck.
2006-08-21 07:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by amazincajn_99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
i think its perfectly alright.....moreover theres always the first time...u can can start now....its never too late to find someone....
so tell me where r u from and maybe we can be friends and get to know each other.....u can mail me or chat with me at gaurav_talkies at yahoo.com.
2006-08-21 06:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by gaurav_talkies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeas it is normal and no its not normal not to have stable relationship ys there is hope for u when you are ready for a stable relationship
2006-08-21 07:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a personal choice, why say it like there is something wrong with this person.
2006-08-21 06:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋