2006-08-20 22:56:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Open your eyes. Don't let yourself be desperate. If a person truly cares for you he/she will show you every chance they get. "To thine own self be true".
2006-08-20 23:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i have a friend. Her bf calls her everyday, and they both live in different countries. It works. She is still studying while the bf is actually working already, so he says he will do the calling because he makes money since he is working. Whenever she calls, he doesnt really like it, coz she is using her money for school to buy the cards to call. But she tries to call when she can. But the bf doesnt complain about calling her. He also comes and visit sometimes. They have been together for about 1 year and 6 months. They also spend time talking online, and emails and webcam.
If their love can work, why cant yours? Do you have problems calling him? There are other ways to communicate, there is the internet (i.e msn, yahoo mesenger, email, webcam, mic ) there is also the phone, just txt each other. You dont have to call everyday, you can call once a week or so.
If your complaining, then do bother to be in this relationship. Your taking it as a presure and complaning about it. If you love him, talk to him, maybe ask him why he never calls. Discuss things with him. You can never know anything without asking him. So talk to him.
2006-08-20 23:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong. Just to give you a clue, if I was in a long distance relationship I would call like everyday. You can't use the "long distance cost too much excuse anymore" because we have cell phones. He obviously wants the relationship to be over. I mean how could he not think about you and call even once? He is just putting it off and hoping you will get a clue.
2006-08-20 23:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Elim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r the only one calling I'd say it's not much a relationship. Let alone worth the hassles of a long distance one. Seems like you think u r the only one who cares. In you're heart you probably already know what u should do.
2006-08-20 23:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say give it up!Its neva gonna work.A relationship should be 50/50 and not 90/10.Because its a long distance relationship its gonna take a lot more effort to make it work.If already there is a communication problem then I think u should cancel your efforts.I think you are just setting yourself up for dissapointment.Find somebody else who is worth your love and effort.After all whats the chances that u guys will actually end up together one day?
2006-08-20 23:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the poem, The Butterfly?
If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was. We do not possess anything in this world, least of all other people. We only imagine that we do. Our friends, our lovers, our spouses, even our children are not ours; they belong only to themselves. Possessive and controlling friendships and relationships can be as harmful as neglect.
If you are the only one calling, stop calling. If the other person wants to pursue the relationship, they will pick up the torch and start calling you. If they don't, then you've stopped wasting your time, emotional energy, and money on a dead relationship.
~The Fat Lady
2006-08-20 23:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can last forever, l'm Scottish my husband is Maltese, we started with a long distance relationship, then eventually married, now 15 years. The thing is both of you need to be committed, if you are the only one calling, l'm sorry to say but l would look for someone closer to home. Why waste your time. Stop calling him to see if he contacts you, if not cut your losses, before you get more hurt.
2006-08-20 23:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thye work like any relationship you BOTH have to work at it one person can't make a relationship work it takes two. Long distance relationships do take more effort and if one person isn't making that effort then I'd say it isn't going to work. Good luck.
2006-08-20 23:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah Piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship if a two way street. Sounds to me that he doesnt really give a ****..or else you'd be on his mind and he would be trying to call. I say look at it... and ditch it if things dont change. Good luck girl!
2006-08-20 23:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG... we're in the same boat.
Well, listen... I'm not keeping the relationship for obvious reasons. I stopped calling him since yesterday.
2006-08-20 23:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by Muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 900 number
2006-08-20 23:00:49 · answer #11 · answered by kendiane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋