I always want to get the best education as I can but sometimes to get it, I sometimes ask other people for finances help and in order to do that, I sometimes deceive them although I know I shoudn't. And to have a school fee is paid in this semester, I am going to get help from my best friend who I once deceive. I really hate what I am doing at the moment becasue I was brought up and was taught by my teachers that I must find a fair way to gain what I want but what I'm doing is the contrary to that. I don't want to do it anymore although I know after that I wouldn't have any support but I just can''t. My parents recently asked me to tell lies to my uncle to get help and I couldn't imagine how they can ask me to do that. They are my parents and I can' believe they are teaching their daughter to deceive people. I have to do it because I really have no choice. If only I could study abroad to widen my knowledge and identify myslef in front of my family and tell them what I really think.
2006-08-20 22:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Financial Aid
So what is the question?
2006-08-20 22:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by phoneypersona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sasa2lo,
Life is full of ups and downs. Life gives us the taste of both, good and bad. Whenever any calamity takes place, majority people say Why me?? But when a good thing happens, no one says why me... This is the human attitude. Whenever any calamity takes place, it can either be a punishment from God or it can be your test. Whenever any good thing happens, it can either be a reward for something from the God or it can be a test. During bad times, you should not be worried and enjoy with whatever you have as the saying goes, "You today is the tomorrow which you worried about yesterday." You can satisfy yourself by thinking that its not only me who is facing such hardships. The whole world is sunk in the pool of troubles and problems.
What I believe is that your today is based on the choices you made in the past. Your past choices greatly influence your present and you cannot in any way, blame your circumstances.
Regarding your main question, you should give the utmost respect and love to your parents among human beings, But if they ask you to do something wrong, you should never agree with it. You should fight against wrong even if it be your parents, your relatives and YOURSELF. You should have the will power to do it. For getting education, you can get admission in some cheap institute. Its not necessary to get admitted in hi-fi institutes for bright futures. You have access to internet and internet is an ocean of knowledge. You can get it. You should have the gut to tell your parents that from now onwards, I am not going to deceive the people. I am going to get my education sincerely. Did u ever think whats the use of getting such education whose base is decieving people. By getting education, we learn to modernize and socialize, not to cheat and deceive people. Or you can ask for help from your uncle or your friend. You can tell them that I want money fro education I may not be able to return your money. In this age, when you are decieving people, when you'll grow up, there are high possibilities of doing some more advanced crimes. Do not follow the footsteps of Satan. So make a resolution that you will now get your education sincerely and will make the use of it.
May God bless you!
Allah Hafiz
2006-08-20 23:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you? What type of education are trying to get? How did you deceive your uncle. Your parents probably know best and care about your best interest; however, we need this information to understand. What do you want to do with your future?
2006-08-21 01:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋