i am in a relationship with a guy who i love and he always tells me of how much he loves me each time i try to end the relationship because i dont see anything working btwn us. Guy is always busy drinking with his friends and we never get chance to see each other i tried to bring this up and he promised to give me some time but he is not doing it rather he will call and give me excuses and still assures me that he loves me but i dont see it. what do i tell him that nothing is working between us and that we should quit the relationship coz its really hurting and i cant take it anymore. please help
2006-08-20 22:28:25 · 17 answers · asked by zozo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be strong and go with your gut instinct. I personally would not be with someone who drinks, I have done that. It is not good. It is a hard to end relationships with someone you care about. You can both be good people, maybe just not together.
If you are hurting, you should end it and go on. Be strong. It may make him think twice after you end it and he may try to make time. I am sure there are others out there that will make time for you and your relationship together.
I am pulling for you. Keep your chin up.
2006-08-20 22:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just end it or say you want a break if you're not ready for that yet. You'll get over him, to be honest he sounds like any typical guy you could pick up at any bar. Nothing special. If he really was special he wouldn't feel the need to put his friends before you in anything. It takes quite a guy to put his woman first before his friends and believe me those men are out there.
2006-08-21 05:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His manipulative. As early as possible try to end the relatioship. As you can see his always making excuses with his behavior. If he really loves you that much he'll spend more time with you rather than playing GULP GULP GULP ( drinking) with his friends. There are more fish in the ocean.Good luck.
2006-08-21 05:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by shannon s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, you deserve someone who SHOWS you that he loves you, not only says it. You are a woman and worth to be treated like a princess. If this guy cannot see this then he is not worth it. I know it's difficult if you love him, but you also have to love youself and know that are unique and special. Somewhere, there will be a guy who sees your worth and beauty and appreciate it.
2006-08-21 05:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Issabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the relationship , if he loves you he will cut drinking with his friends and give you time with him , then you get back to him ...and if he don't , that means that he is lying to you all the time and do not love you
2006-08-21 05:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Itz not necessary tat u have 2 meet him... As long as ya hearts beat as 1 itz enough.. If u tink hiz not rite have a talk wif him.. No changes means change ya guy..
2006-08-21 05:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he iss not responding to you talking to him then write him a letter saying everything you are feeling, then at the end in big letters say you are dumped
2006-08-21 05:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions Speak Louder than words.
Need I say more ?
2006-08-21 05:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by shady_man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are being used as a status symbol, find someone who will appreciate you and does'nt drink
2006-08-21 05:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my stepmother and my ex girlfriend. Dump him.
2006-08-21 05:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋