2006-08-20 22:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what's so wrong with porn? Just monitor your time. Make sure it doesn't interfere with your job and that all your obligations are being taken care of. Also, if you're dating someone, don't hide it from them. Find a creative way to introduce it.
2006-08-20 22:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Hey You 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How to avoid porn addiction on the Internet
1. Consider installing porn content filtering software( Strongly Recommend NetDog ,you can get it from www.netdogsoft.com ) on your computer. it will help to protect you from stumbling into pornography by accident, That's important.
2. Do not try to guess what the address of a Web page is. Many pornographic sites have similar addresses of respectable sites. For example www . whitehouse . com is a porn site. The real address is www. whitehouse . gov
3. Never click on Web site addresses that you receive in an unsolicited email.
4. Do not open attachments that come in email that are unsolicited.
5. Use filtered search engines or reputable directories to find the information you need.
6. Do not search for terms like girls. Think before you enter a search term.
Stick with reputable sites.
If something looks questionable, don't let curiosity get the best of you. Delete it or close the window.
Internet Porn Filter Resource:
http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-08-21 10:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would suggest praying everytime you want to watch porn. Maybe put a bible on top of whatever medium you use to view it.
If you don't have a particular belief, just find something else to dl when you want to do it.
I have/had the same sort of issue, and really it was just as much being bored as wanting to see the porn. Just have to get another habit.
You can beat this. (sorry couldn't resist a pun.)
2006-08-21 05:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Chris S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have already taken the first gaint leap in being able to say this. I salute your efforts to try to stop. Maybe try to fill your time with other things that are fun to you....and avoid places where porn is the only thing.
This might be difficult, but I am sure that the rewards later on will be well worth the effort!! You GO!!
2006-08-21 05:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Issabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I put it this way, eventually you will get sick and tired of watching porns, it will soon get old and boring, i should know and i am a woman that use to watch porn. I no longer watch porn because it's the same old thing over and over again.
2006-08-21 05:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by kintrell_olia_wright 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get rid of your computer, find some kind of activity to keep you mind occupied. Porn addiction is caused by boredom.
2006-08-21 05:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats so bad about being addicted to porn, i mean as long as you like it, who cares about what others think
2006-08-21 05:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to stop? I'm in the same boat but I'm not trying to stop anything soon. You might want to get rid of what you got and possibly seek conseling. If you do get rid of your stuff let me know. I'm sure I would be interested on taking some of it off of your hands.
2006-08-21 05:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by makeherwett 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Viewing pornography is a form of adultery (Matthew 5:28), and its potential to damage a marriage cannot be underestimated. Too often it is justified as a harmless necessity by the addicted, suggesting that it is not as damaging as physical adultery. This is a lie!
Sexual sin produces consequences that will affect us deeply. Viewing porn is a form of sex sin committed through lust and idolatry. If you are looking at pornography, you are susceptible to the same consequences that result from other forms of sexual sin. The consequences may not be easily absolved, but God will forgive you of your sin through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ.
Whether you have already sinned, or are thinking about doing so, the point here is to encourage you not to sin.
When we repeatedly sin, we give evil an increasingly protected place in our lives. The more we give in to our sinful lusts, the more they have control over us. Paul described this as slavery to sin in Romans 6:16. Sexual strongholds are particularly powerful, since they involve our body, soul and spirit. Thankfully, Jesus provided the means for us to break out of any stronghold and live for God in righteousness.
Sex sin defiles your body and damages its ability to fulfill God's purposes. Sex sin is unique in that we commit it against our own bodies (1 Corinthians 6:17). Our bodies function as temples of God's Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:12-20). When we use our body for sex sin, we dishonor our body and defile God's temple. We're also defiling the people that we are sinning with. Our lack of respect for the body (and for God) damages our relationship with God.
Sex sin causes lasting memories. Sex memories are created in our brains with the help of special hormones released during sexual arousal. The devil uses these memories to condemn us and keep us in bondage to lust. These memories can cause difficulties in our sexual relationship with our spouse. Here are some examples:
Our sexual experiences with our spouse are corrupted by thoughts of our former lovers or porn images we've viewed
We idolize past sexual partners...especially when we run into difficulties in our marriage
We feel less satisfied with our spouse's sexual performance
Our minds are conditioned to gratify our lusts through sex instead of showing true love and affection
We get angry and resentful when our spouse won't help us relive past sexual experiences or perform sex acts we've seen in porn
Thankfully, when we follow Jesus Christ, we receive power to overcome the memories, purify our minds and regain control of our thought-life.
If you have already reaped these consequences, there is hope for recovery through Jesus. Though every consequence may not be completely removed, God can help you make the best of your circumstances, and get back on track in a life of happiness and blessing.
2006-08-21 05:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like porn is Okay, to be addicted is not Okay!!
Sell your computer and television, unsubscribe your porn magazine, do lot of sports and exercise!
good luck, my friend!!! ;)
2006-08-21 05:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by dayBYday 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋