2006-08-20 21:54:20 · 23 answers · asked by kintrell_olia_wright 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
after reading some of the answers here I am afraid many women have the male gender entirely wrong...I, being female, understand the basic needs and wants of a man; thus I have no problem maintaining my long term relationship, and such, I have no mistrust issues in him, nor does he in me....
now, to answer the question at hand....men get upset when their wife has male friends NOT because they are insecure but becuase they understand that men and women are not created to be "friends"...animal instincts kick in and sooner or later one "friend" will be attracted to the other (if their wasn't already an existing relationship between the two "friends"). Because of the strong sexual tension males and females have for one another when one person finds the other attractive it is not polite to have male friends as a female...the only male friends a woman should have should be the friends her man posesses. Also, it is okay for a man to have female friends so long as the man is a true gentleman and not anything less...a true gentleman understands the emotional needs of a woman and would not dare cross the line between friendship and attraction when the woman is caught in emotional distress
...in conclusion, women need to act less feministic and treat their men with the dignitiy and respect they deserve...however, if your man does not seem to give you dignity or respect then you need to rethink your relationship and perhaps act on one of your "friendships" instead...
2006-08-20 22:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by babylove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I appreciate this question. Yes you are right that most men get upset when they see their wife male friends. It is due to the fact that they don't like that their wives have relations with other male friends. No body like that his wife has any male friend. It is natural and one cannot escape this. It is just like women as they don't like any female friend of their husbands. so it is jealousy which no one can avoid. I think this is the crux of answer that husbands/friends do not trust their wives and they are inclined tho think that their wives must have any clandestine relationships with their male friends , which is usual as sex plays an important role in the male and female relations.
2006-08-20 22:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably, I had the very similar concern the position i became forbade to have interplay with any lady workers at my position of employment, yet she openly chased after the male workers the position she worked. My journey shows you're in a loose - loose concern. in case you do not something, she will be in a position to proceed. when you're saying something, you stress her to substantiate on between you and the different guy. and also you'll loose. the different individual does not have the luggage that you've. No ill toddlers, nerve-racking about paying expenditures, arguing, or any of the different issues that contain marriage. each assembly with the different guy is sparkling, satisfied, and has not something to diminish the right results of the proper courting. Like I stated a better half being cheated on can not compete. on your case, it really is clear she prefers the different mans organization to yours. She is spending extra time with him than you. in case you've been her selection, she would spend extra time with you. you could as well lay down the regulation as she laid it all the way down to you. If she leaves, it became finally inevitable. If she continues to be, then good for you.
2016-11-30 22:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by mcgrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c they are insecure about themselves and they think that all men think the way they do ok how,when, and how many times can I get that.......so they don't want some guy hanging out with us thinking that mabe we might fall for the same stupid line we fell for when they hooked up with us lol they also say that male friends are just guys that aint hit it yet so they don't want it to get to that point just do like any respectable women would do lie and tell him the guy is gay lol they don't mind us hanging with gay guys
2006-08-20 22:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by p-nut butter princess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A friend is a friend, no big deal, but there is an unspoken-unwritten "space" thats reserved only for your husband.
Other men totally understand it, and if they violate that space, is a huge dis-respect to the womans husband.
Could get one a get-out-of-here to a downright ***-kickin.
If you dont understand those boundaries, dont **** on your husband, ask him about it.
2006-08-20 22:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by DelusionRoad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men and women can't be friends. Women foolishly trust men as friends, when all the man is thinking of is sex.
2006-08-20 22:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
men think how orthers are good in another word men like more than a friend out of weman your husband is rigth
if you like you family avoid men if not one of the days one cute cranck with you when you can underestand that he has sheared 20 cm of his body with you .
2006-08-21 01:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by mohammad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They feel threatened, they are worried they gonna loose their wife - it shows how much trust there is in their relationship... otherwise they wouldn't make a problem of it!
2006-08-20 22:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Eyeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men. just the insecure ones.
if they've been fooling around with other women, they think other men want to do the same with their wives. I think.
2006-08-20 22:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase men are selfish and like to have the woman for thmselves,, no another one should share them in the same woman,,, they think that every man should have his own woman and vice verse
2006-08-20 22:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by gamma_batta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋