Listen to this and tell me if she's lying. Last February she was diagnosed with a heart condition (I forgot what it was exactly, I'm not good with medical mumbo jumbo. All I know is if she gets too stressed out, she dies. I know this part is true, I visited her in the hospital.). That following week, she said her heart therapy counselor said no more dating, the Dating world was too stressful. So I said, okay, thinking we'd get back together later, after her therapy. then During Spring Break, my cousin Melody (Her best friend) told me she was dating some other guy. When I got back, I called her and she said her counselor introduced her to the guy she's dating. My cousin Sparky, her cousin Mike (A buddy of mine), my twin brother, stepbrothers, stepsister,dad, and best friend Logan say that story is a lie. I'm Confused. Is it a lie or not? Please help!
2006-08-20 21:29:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.i am so sorry that this girl wouldn't be honest with you and just tell you that she wasn't interested in you anymore.She probally thought that she was sparing your feeling by not telling you how she really felt instead ,she told a lie.knowyou come back after spring Break and where immediately informed, that this girl that you cared for and was waiting for, her to get well so..that you and her would continue dating ,and leave off where you left off ,before she was diagonosed and supposedly was told that dating was too stressful, for her so called heart problems started.... She is a bad liar, and a mean person.I would go on with my life and find that perfect girl that will treat you as you deserve to be treated....I f it will help you to go and see this sorry excuse for the female gender, and too get closure, than do it..Tell her,how you felt about all her lies and that you are glad that you found out what a manipulative liar,she turned out to be......She will see that ,you moved on and found someone better suited too your needs.................be happy that she did this sooner than later or your feeling would have been more deeper.....Please, get a journal, and write your feelings in it .This a good healthy way to vent, and get all your anger down on paper.You didn't do anything wrong, she was the one who was a liar and a manipulator....it shows that honesty is the best policy where other peoples feeling are concerned.Good-luck, you are a sweet guy and you will find a wonderful young woman to fulfil your every dream and desire....just be patient,it will happen, when you least expect it too.
2006-08-20 21:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by FELINELOVER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the journey that your female friend lies continuously and pointlessly - she has a real situation. It probably evolves from insecurities (attempting to make herself or issues that are taking position extra exciting than they're). you have not any administration over this and neither does she except she recognizes the region and is worried sufficient to do something about. this would probably in ordinary words worsen with time. - in truth the further easily issues are happening your lives the further probably she is to be making up lies to spice issues up - there is not something like making a significant disaster out of a minor drama. you could confront her - it isn't likely to be effective- so it extremely relies upon on how properly you could submit with this way of behaviour - also keep in ideas it really is really probably to get a lot worse with time. good success
2016-11-30 22:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by mcgrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sorry to say but it does sound like a lie. How long have you guys been together? If she really treasures you, she'll be open abt her heart condition and wanna deal abt this with you. Confront her, if she faints from a weak heart, then you'll know she's telling you the truth.
2006-08-20 21:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is the answer really important? My feeling is that she did not lie to u on purpose, just that she felt lonely n needed another guy to take ur place.Single life was unbearable for her..but the answer is not important nw as u guys have already broken up n to me it seems nt very possible to get back together..
2006-08-20 21:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by I dunno wad to do.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow she is LYING.she just wanted to get rid of you and she knows that you love her so the best way to scare you is to come up with some heart story.i also tell such lies when im tired of a guy and not wanting to hurt them.its difficult to say i want you no more.she is no longer your girlfriend pls accept it.move on there are plenty of girls out there who need some true love.ignore her.your friends are speaking the truth.
2006-08-20 21:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by babyglad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does sound like a lie.
Good luck in finding someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.
2006-08-20 21:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lie to me. Get over her. There are LOTS of women out there!
Good luck!
2006-08-20 23:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of heart conditions that you couldn't get stressed out with but never one that says you can't date. She's lying.
2006-08-20 21:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, have you tried asking her? No relationship is clear until YOU'VE asked the person whose hurting you, if they're really doing it. Just trust her, if she says that she isn't. If she is- you'll find out in the long run, but just keep in mind to be careful for that.
2006-08-20 23:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by bratworth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, she is not yours anymore. Its hard to get over someone that we care about and worst of all cheated on us. She probably has move on. You too move on. Forgive and forget. Good for your own soul. Not worth it mate. Its more about the betrayal than her isnt it ?
2006-08-20 21:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋