how can i maintain healthy relation b/w me and my girl friend-i ll marry her in future.?

Question

she is cancer and i am capricorn-is there someting to do with it? she luves me very much and i too luv her bt still we fail to understand each other.when she call me up when i am with my friends-she complains with me that i do not talk with her like i do at my home when no one's around-is not lik that u knw guys? they dnt care to whom im talking to,they jst talk on their own-they often use bad language while talkin within friends and i dont want my girlfriend to hear all these bull ****-i dont want to embarace her,but at last she miss judges me and end up doin the same.we wanna get married.she is too emotional,too sensitive,too possesive but we look so good together.pls help to build good relationship with her.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I'm not sure if the zodiac has anything to do with this. You know they discovered an extra planet just recently, so that messes everything up. If you really love each other you should sit and talk about how you feel you have to act "like the guys" when you are with them.
You mention at least three things that describe your girl and from what I understand, you see them as defects. If you think she is too emotional, too sensitive and too possessive, think about how you met her being that way and that most likely she'll remain the same for the rest of her life. It is not about how good you look together. If you are really planning to get married, you both have to accept each other for who you are and be willing to live with it for the rest of your life.
Maybe some counseling would help you. Good luck!

Answer 3

Lol I was reading Jrn's answer and he was consoling you on the fact that your gf has cancer when you meant that her horoscopes cancer loll. How cute was that.

Anyway, I think you're thinking too superficially about your relationship. 'But we look so good together' ??? Its superficial.
Being in a relationship requires a lot of responsibility and this is where you mature in character.
I know how men like to act with their gfs when theyre with their friends... in a way, they sometimes do shed the loving manner they usually treat their gfs when they are alone.
You should learn to be constant. If you love her, you must treat her with respect and love everywhere you go, be it with your friends or not. Its the same goes with her as well.
Horoscopes have nothing to do with it.. although my bf swears by it lol. Its your choice whether you wanna believe in this. But what matters is how YOU control your life, not the way the stars are aligned around Jupiter or Saturn.
Good luck!

Answer 4

Read on:

TO BE A GOOD HUSBAND

1. Eat appreciatively of her cooking and express it often in words.
2. Set aside at least one night each week for a "Night-out" with her.
3. Have only praise for her, when talking with others.
4. Work together with your own children.
5. Develop spare-time hobbies that you can share with each other.
6. Plan many events together, rather than each going separate ways.
7. Have frequent words of promise for her.
8. Share all plans, problems, efforts and benefits of your home.
9. Remember her and the entire family daily in your personal prayers.
10. Remember all anniversaries and other special events.

A good husband should be deaf and a good wife blind.
- Montaigne

Answer 5

To keep ur relationship secure just just don't poke ur nose too much into her personal matters.Let her be of her own.May be that sometimes some of her attitude or her behavior is not of ur likings but u have to get accustomed to it,just for the sake of ur relationship and always expect that she is not going to respect ur likings and dislikings. in a very simple word u have to be a blind person to keep ur relationship secure.

Answer 6

Look, love is not just a feeling. If both insist on own ways, one being possessive and insist on the possessiveness to be fed upon and the other needs freedom and insist on it, things will not work out, both must give and take, that is true love, stretch and willing to sacrifice, if this is meant to be.

Answer 7

I have 1:30 in the morning.
You must be with her like you are nobody have the right to change you but you do. Respect your girl and show her your love wherever you are. If you understand her why you don't want to make her happy. She is telling you what she wants - just do.

Answer 8

just because you guys love each other doesn't mean you need to continue the relationsihp.
Too many fall in love and then marry and realize they actually married a person wrong for them, cuz they married the romantic fairy tale.
It is possible for two people to communiucat well
You will get tired of her soon

Answer 9

bhai arif awaken u stay in india and 18 yrs previous female u are speaking approximately she have actual dating for 2 yrs that mean she became into having intercourse whilst she became into sixteen yrs previous,in basic terms think of she became into at job for under a week she asked u to get marry and u agreed and her relatives even began coming on your workplace to ascertain u to me evidently like the girl is a participant even her relatives knows approximately her previous and as quickly as she instructed them approximately u and that they got here to ascertain u and observed u have a good job so they think of u are top murga trapped for his or her daughter. if this all happens in united states no longer a great deal yet u are in india dont choose for rather and bhola face and stay faraway from this female and if u have any ability get this female out of your workplace if u dont in long-term u would be crying. its real existence brother no longer a bollywood drama or action picture its your existence how u % it u might desire to make very final deceision,by skill of how i'm indian residing in united states for 20yrs so dont break your existence good success in existence.

Answer 10

Srry that sh it is just too long to concentrate on at 4 in the mornin