My boyfriend and I just broke up and while it's not that I want to immediatly get back together with him because while I was really sad this past week I realized that things were just not good between us. We were fighting a lot, we were partying to much to forget that we were unhappy and then we would get drunk and fight some more. Vicious vicious cycle. However, I think that we really forget how to love eachother even though we thought that we loved eachother. What I'm saying is I want to give eachother space but still remain friends so that the pressure we be off and maybe we can be normal around eachother. I know that we don't act like the same people we were when it was good but I still think it is in us somewhere once we become happy with just our individual selves again. (Depression can be two-fold when you are dealing with it with someone else also.) Basically, how do I remind eachother how we used to be and maybe then start over and slowly rebuild what we lost?
2006-08-20
21:14:39
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caroline
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Even though we knew it was bad he was the one that ultimately ended it. We live together which I think was one of the problems and I was already planning on moving out. The problem is that he ended it without even giving it much of a chance. I'm waiting for us to get our independent lives back before we can reconnect.
Also, if you are not going to answer seriously to this question, please do not respond at all. Is it just to get that one point for answering? Because the levels on Yahoo Answers are just designed for those exact people to keep playing around instead of actually using it as a tool to learn. So no, I am not pathetic to be "net blogging" about it or whatever that respondent meant, and jacquestrapp ... it's not because I got fat. If there could be a vote for worst answer then I have already chosen you. Can't you have a heart? I'm crushed, I'm trying to learn from this experience and I hope I never have to have someone like you in my life.
2006-08-20
22:10:27 ·
update #1