is there something wrong will anting a guy who is finacial secure to be your guy ? they say that in the twentieth centurty you can grow to love someone if you can t least appreciate them, so am i just a gold digger?
2006-08-20 21:09:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to work on your financial security before you start worrying about others!
You have to appreciate them no matter who they are if that's the one you want.
You're a gold digger if you ONLY care about money.
Money means nothing to me and my husband can become poor tomorrow but you know what, I will still love him that's why we're married!
2006-08-20 21:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stressful fulfillment out of your boyfriend isn't gold digging, offered you call for an same of your self. providing you're authentic looking about this (fulfillment might want to be measured in a great number of strategies), that is properly a sturdy theory. You summed it up completely: you don't want a slacker boyfriend, because then you'd be the sufferer of gold-digging, and by no skill the gold-digger itself. yet be careful: when you're searching for a neuro-health practitioner and also you're basically a college instructor, you'll in all probability by no skill discover what you want. Be authentic looking about fulfillment, or you'd be a lonely "fulfillment" your self. Your compatibility and values nevertheless remember more desirable than funds.
2016-11-26 20:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a gold digger. You want a guy that can take care of you and there is nothing wrong with that
2006-08-20 21:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is overrated anyway. If you are comfortable committing to a person for reasons other than love, that can be a strong motivation as well. If you plan on divorcing and taking your half... then you're a gold digger.
2006-08-20 21:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you care about him financially then the descriptive term people will use is gold digger.What happens if he goes broke?better you are finacially secure then!Appreciate him in ways like attitud personality and other personal things.get together then make the money together
2006-08-20 21:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by ntaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, we seem to forget that women look for providers so that they are secure and their family can be safe and healthy. In these days money is the key to that. In reverse men look for beauty which would gaurantee that his children are healthy and beautiful themselves. Its all instinct. Golddiggers slleep with multiple partners to get hat they want. Do you do that?
2006-08-20 21:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by righteous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you know what you want and are honest about it, that's a good thing! Find someone who also puts a priority on material things and go from there, you'll have a good shot.
Best of luck to ya!
2006-08-20 21:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by Smarticus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its only wrong to date someone if all you want is money. If you only talk to guys who throw money around you will end up alone. what is to stop him from replacing you when the next hot 20 yr old comes around. plus he can stop spending his own money on you at anytime
2006-08-20 21:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by matthew c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's only the money you want, then your a gold digger
2006-08-20 21:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by mickbell77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, a gold digger.What happens when you find your rich sugar daddy and he turns out to be a complete jerk?(most people obsessed with money are)
2006-08-20 21:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Toooo Sexy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋