2006-08-20 20:56:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-20 21:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people would say bone her and break her. You don't want to do this. It might be a way to get laid, but you will regret breaking her heart, and it will haunt you. Just be careful. You should try not to wait too long before telling her though. The sooner the better. Try telling her something like, "I don't want to hurt your feelings so I will tell you now rather than wait until we get close..." It is entirely up to you though, if you want to go as far as you can with her and then cut it off, thats your choice. You will learn alot from it, but PLEASE, rather than to find out the hard way, just take my word for it, You Will Never Forgive Yourself, nether will she, and if she really likes you, it will change her permanently. BE CAREFUL.
2006-08-21 04:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by randall w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell her straight out that you're sorry but you're just not interested. However if you don't want to hurt her feelings, then just say I'm sorry, but I don't have that "chemistry" with you. Whatever you say, make it clear! The worst thing is for her to misinterpret what you said and will think that you like her!
2006-08-21 04:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, " I'm not interested in anything serious, but if you'd like to go out as friends, that would be cool." Now, if you really don't like her, just say "I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but I think I should tell you I'm not interested in you, and I don't want to lead you on."
2006-08-21 04:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her down easily but don't sugarcoat it. Be clear with what you say. If you're friends with her, maybe suggest staying friends but be sure to keep honest. It's hard to not lie to make someone feel better.
Good luck to the both of you. It's a hard situation to deal with. ^^
2006-08-21 04:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by sapphirefatal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best be direct right off.
Say. it is nice of her to ask you but you don't see the two of you as a couple and that you havee interests elsewhere.
Be direct and to the point
2006-08-21 04:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I'm not interested in you in that way. We can be friends if you like.
2006-08-21 04:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by SidTheKid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you say doesnt matter as long as you say it ASAP just say your a great friend and going out with you would make that awkward
2006-08-21 04:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth from the begining be up front and tell her your not interested in her dont be mean about it but let her know
2006-08-21 04:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by crazie_for_ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are not interested, but you can be friends.
2006-08-21 04:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hurt her feelings , just tell her you are not ready to start a relationship, your happy alone.
2006-08-21 04:03:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋