her mum dont want us together she never admitted we was a couple only to me her mum hates me and she wont contact me in any way other than she thinks its my sister she talking to on yahoo she wont say goodbye to me if its over thats all i want i recently told her i was going to new zealand to live to force her feelings out in the open but it never worked only she rang my phone the day after and hung up
2006-08-20 20:43:31 · 10 answers · asked by richard b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are other pebbles on the beach, bend down and pick one up, you might be surprised and delighted.
2006-08-20 20:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody on here can really guess about what's going on with her, but if her mother doesn't want her with you its quite possible the mother is putting so much pressure on her that's it as far as you and she are concerned. Maybe, too, the mother has pointed out something about the two of you together that has convinced her to stop talking to you.
Either way, you have to just move on. You're apparently very young. There will be a lot of other girls in your life over the next several years or longer. Enjoy memories of whatever you both had, and if you hear from her then say "good bye". Otherwise, just write off the whole thing as something that wasn't meant to be.
2006-08-20 20:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be much better off without her. Don't wait for her to tell you it's over, you make it known to her that it's over. Move on, go to New Zealand and enjoy your life. We only get the one life and it's a shame if your going to waste a lot of your time on this girl who is messing with your head. Be happy!
2006-08-20 21:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Claire R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just through personal experience the girl needs to stand up to her mother otherwise the mother will continue to rule her life.
what i did is my dad was exactly the same as the mother never wanting me to see him everytime he phoned the looks i would get would scare me to death.
then one day i walked in the house sat my parents down and told them this is who i love and surely what makes me happy should make them happy we cant choose who we fall in love with and no body is perfect.. and they eventually in time came round they still not happy but at the end of the day they can see being with him makes me happy.
but on your side the girl probably feels unsure of what she is feeling maybe you are her first boyfriend and she doesnt know how to act if you know her address or email i would write a letter and if no reply then you move on at least you have some closure if you have her mobile number text her and tell her and if she keeps phoning and hanging up then you text her and tell her you are not here to play silly games and you are not tolerating it no more and your moving on without her.
2006-08-20 21:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by sexy babes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its over my friend so move on and delete all phone numbers and e-mail addresses of her's think of you for a change and remember if you meet someone else you will just remember this as past experience get my drift.
2006-08-20 20:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tony Hi_teck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry I doubt if I could answer this question in a way you would understand Good luck
2006-08-20 21:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get someone new. Someone who knows how to treat a man she cares for. GL & GB
2006-08-20 20:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sticks and stones are hard on bones,
aimed with angry art,
words can sting like anything,
but silence breaks the heart
2006-08-20 20:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Melody. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jog on.
2006-08-20 20:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by Matthew Hatton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fact is.... i don't know!
2006-08-20 20:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋