Ive been haveing a crush on this girl for about 3 years now.. she knows i really like her and would like to be more than just friends.. So i call her over to come and chill or go to the movies... well we do stuff and its like after a few days of doing things together she just like stops calling or texting.. and when we around each other she doesn't even flirt or anything.. and then that just repeats itself. I do try to make moves but doesnt seem to work with her.. She never has a steady boyfiend..
Do you think that she just doesnt want to date me?
Do you think she might be bi or lez?
2006-08-20 20:20:57 · 23 answers · asked by Shane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is probably a chick who dumps guys in a few days......maybe she got bored of u, so be creative and surprising(go roller skating or something, its an example) if ur a teenager it'll work perfect, women like unusual. Also, go up to her and look her in the eyes and say u want her to be ur gf and u wanna take her out and w/e, in a manly way......or write a sweet letter expressing urself and wat u want...hand it to her with a nice smile and walk away, she might find it cute and answer u back......women are kinda submissive and find it hard to say no if its unusual in some way(e.g, "gimme ur #" is very usual they have practice of rejecting that). it'll work, if u use ur head and dont goof up, and....NO PUPPY LOVE!!, desperation will turn her off. i guess thats it, gimme 10 points if u think its a nice answer:)
2006-08-20 20:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you do not mention your ages...that would help me to better answer your question...but based on what I can gather from the info you did give me to work with...
I say you should not stop trying if you really like her...I did once, and regret it to this day...why you ask??? cuz after I did my tour in Nam... I came to find out she really did want me, but just didn't catch my signals...It was too late once I found out though as she had already married...
Have you even bothered to be upfront with her yet...By that I mean tell her EXACTLY how you feel? if not...you better do it soon or you may lose her entirely...if that happens, you, like me, will regret it the rest of your life...
I don't need the 10 points for best answer, I help out when I can because I enjoy helping people, but do take my advice...you won't regret it...even if she turns you down, at least you'll know in your heart of hearts that you gave it your best shot...and then at least you will be free to move on...
2006-08-20 20:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by fredglendenning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is she likes the thrill of the chase and being chased once caught it gets boring, she backs off and it starts again. If you want more of a commitment then move on to someone else as you have already noticed she never has a steady boyfriend that should say something in itself. Trying to console yourself that she is not falling for your charms coz she is bi or Les might work for your ego but the reality is she is not ready to settle with just one person.
2006-08-20 20:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be in the "friend zone" if so, you may never get where you're trying to go. either that or she's not sure if she wants to be more than friends which is why she keeps backpedaling every few days. have you been straight up with her, that usually saves alot of time. good luck.
Also the fact she never has a steady boyfriend is something to look into also, it could be a double edged sword if you know what i mean.
2006-08-20 20:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by ChangedMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered honest discussions about such things?
I'm thinking she is probably just a confused girl, not bi or lez.
2006-08-20 20:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, are u kidding me? how can u have a crush on a girl for 3 years? and u watched each of her boyfriends get her and u stilll like her?
..... Me personally, i would think she is used up. If she go out with you, will that be ur 1st girlfriend?
2006-08-20 20:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by warcraftdota6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you have come a long way and I think should have known her well by now to know if she is what you think about her. The decision of left for you to made.
2006-08-20 20:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She like the attention but probably isn't that interested. Your fawning over her builds her self-esteem and makes her feel good! Go all out or move on!
Sorry
2006-08-20 20:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tracy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that she bi or lez she sounds to me like the type of girl that like to explore with boys see with whom it goes better or shes just plain and simple shes a little player and you shound'nt even try to get wit that.......
2006-08-20 20:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by china 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think since she has never had a steady boyfreind she i trying 2 c how u function keep spending time together she'll come around
2006-08-20 20:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by princessinwaiting012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋