i have a new suitor... how will i know if he's fake or not???

Question

i have this new suitor and he's a ramp model and a band member, this kind of personality really confused me if he's serious or not. once he told me that he loves me so much and im resisting myself to believe him but unfortunately im falling for him right now. how will i know if he's really serious to me? im afraid that he's only messing up with me. he usually kisses me on my hand and on my forehead and i found it sweet,, really. that makes me more confused. arrgh! im really afraid to believe all of his sweet nothings for me. what will i do?? plus, i knew him only for a couple of weeks ago.. turning 1 month.

Answer 1

Dating is a very confusing part of life. That's why I recommend moving very slowly through this process. Its possible to fall for a guy without losing your head. you know those rules people set for themselves like, no kissing on the first date....? These are very liberal rules.. Conservative rules run along the lines of no kissing for the first 6 months. No sex at all until marriage.

With these kinds of self regulation, you can protect your body if not your heart far better. Watch him when he is around women he has no investment in, (waitresses desk clerks etc.,) to see how he treats them. Watch how he treats women he does have investment in, (mother, sister, etc.,) to see how he treats them. If he is respectful and honoring and chivalrous, you just might have a good catch. Also, talk to his friends about his reputation with the ladies, not always dependable for straight answers, but doesn't hurt to see what they have to say about his behavior with former girlfriends.

Above all, give him time. (months) If he is consistent and doesn't give up because you aren't putting out, likely he really cares and means what he's saying. In my experience, artists tend to be very passionate and romantic people.

Bad signs with waitresses are indications of how he feels about somebody he doesn't have to impress, like wife or girlfriend.

Bad signs with relatives, indicate abusive nature after he gets you locked into a relationship.

Bad signs with reputation means he tells a good story but drops the charm as soon as he gets what he wants out of you.

God bless you.

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Answer 2

don't let the flower words change what is actually happening. he is telling you that he loves you soo much ask him what he loves about you. If he is serious he will be able to answer. he might stutter at first if he does love you. If he doesn't stutter and sounds like a line it probably is. if he can't answer well you know what that means.

Answer 3

study relationship books........get self-esteem training.