I have nothing to offer?

Question

me and my boyfriend of nine months kinda like to a break our 7 month and he met this gorgeous model..... well now were back together...but everytime I look at her I get sick because I feel like shes so beautiful and I have nothing to offer him like she did..... im skinny and a really dont have large breast and she did... what do I do to make this feeling go away..becuz he tells me im beautiful and all that but its still here

Answer 1

all you need to do is realize that maybe all that crap they talk about beauty coming from the inside may be true. There was something that he felt for you that couldn't be fullfilled by a nice rack. get yourself a makeover, a new outfit or something, and then watch the way he looks at you. Maybe the other girl isn't as pretty as you think

Answer 2

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. He may be attracted 2 the model physically but he loves u 4 who u r . Make the most of yr self cos u r skinny u can get away with any type of clothing Wear a frilly top and emphasis on yr waist . Believe u r beautiful in yr own way.

Answer 3

Hi, Never say you have nothing to offer.I have small breast to.The old saying is,if it's bigger that a mouth full what good are they.Sweety i'm skinny to,but you know you won over that other woman.You have alot to offer.Your a caring person and a loving person.1 thing you are forgetting,your always there for your man and he loves you for it.If your looking at the model picture and thinking she is beautiful,Just remember beauty comes from deep inside a person and i bet your pretty and hey,he came back to be with you not her.That says it all right there.you always have alot to offer any man.i bet you are trusting,loyal,honest,caring,respect and loving person.Just remember to make that feeling go away.you have alot to offer any man and you are better than that model.and you are a beauty yourself.and your man really loves you.Sweety you have it all,so relax and have a happy life.

Your Friend Clowmy

Answer 4

well looks arent everything and i guess he found this out. maybe she is stuck on herself. men dont like a suck up women. so work out and get your hair and nails done. buy a new outfit. its not that you are jealous. society has made their own ideal women. you are beautiful as you are in your own way. just spruce up once in a while. it will make you feel good as a women to do this. big breast are not everything. halle berry doesnt have big breast, ciera, madonna, jada pickett, all these women are beautiful and so are you. everyone cant look the same. so walk tall and keep your head up. oh yeah dont forget to put on some heels now and then.

Answer 5

Go take off all you clothes and stand in front of a mirror. look at yourself, your whole self. Look at your curves, look at your muscles, look at your face, your butt, your rack, everything. Now think, are you not beautiful? Now look at yourself from the inside, what are your values, what are your goals, what do you want to have ten years from now, or twenty years from now? Is it to be beautiful or to be happy, do you want to be a parent, do you want to have a job that makes a difference, do you want to travel, what do you want?
Now look at this guy, who is chasing some model, not caring about you, do you deserve this? Or do you deserve someone that looks at you and thinks that you are the best woman in the world, you are perfect, you want the same things, you have the same dreams and 30 years from now, you may have something to talk about other than how good he used to look.
Stop chasing and wait to be chased, it feels much better.

Answer 6

Really...the only way to feel that you're good enough is to either accept that he really does love you and really does want only you, [which won't make you feel "good enough"], or you can prove to yourself that you're good enough by taking measures to make you feel better about yourself. You can do that, by dressing up and playing up the features that you have that she doesn't, and I know there are some. Or you can start by building character and building your talents. Good luck. If your boyfriend loves you and only you, just accept that.

Answer 7

it easily relies upon on what you like, stick to ur heart and do what u sense is sturdy for you. i does not date somebody like that. he would use then you definitely sell off you! there possibly conflicts considering which you're nicely performed and he's no longer something ! u 2 are from diverse international so i recommend you stumble on somebody greater clever and somebody ur form. u could have him as chum and look after one greater thats ok ! yet relationship is diverse case, you wanna be appeared after yet hence u would be finding after him and have confidence me u would be drained and perplexed later. so i recommend u to no longer get in contact with this guy. stay pals ! sturdy luck x

Answer 8

You have to find it within yourself that your beautiful.
If your beau says that you are then you probably are.
You cant be negative or it will show.
Everyone has something to offer.
Or you wouldn't have your b/f back.

Answer 9

trust yourself!!!don't get insecure with that beautiful model which you are refering to..always sing this song by cristina aguilera "i am beautiful,no matter what they say,words cant bring me down" and chin up and proudly release that lines..ok!!!

Answer 10

Low self esteem means you will always date losers.